JimBo you've got 3 choices: 1. Fuck her (now or later) but fuck her and receive your punishment (your family leaving you or massive amounts of guilt until they find out or a lengthy prison stay) 2. Address the situation like an adult and be completely clear with her (in which case if you're wrong you look like a total tool and a freaky quasi-child molester) 3. Do nothing, maybe use her as fuel on some nights where its hard starting the fire (wink wink say no more) or just ignore her.

Be a grown man and make a grown man choice.

And if you say that's bad advice I'm hopping on a plane to England to whip your limey ass!