If you truly love her, and I mean truly, not loving watching her tits sway back and forth in the doggy position but just her, and are READY to commit it will be the best decision you ever make...although you will occasionally fantasize about murdering her and burying her in the back yard. My sex life is still very active and my children are a true blessing. My wife isn't the best looking woman I was ever with she just happened to be the best woman and that has made all the difference.