When sparring or fighting think and look like a killer.
You are going to kill the guy, stop him from raping your family, go for him like he had hurt you gf/sister/mother.
you want the advantage you attack him, the same way you would a intruder to your home.
You want the advantage do the above.
I am not going to tell you ways to distract the opponent, there are many ways but I am not going to teach you how to be a weasel.
Good luck.
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