Ray leonards book - abuse.

[Master]

Leonard is the victim in this and should not be blamed for the indecent assault. The abuser used his position of trust and he should be the one targeted. It is easy to say what you would do now but in that situation you may not know what to do or react.

[DavilaJones]

I get the jokes and crass humor but people always claim what they would do in a situation and truth be told no one can honestly say how they would react if their coach, somewho who they trust and someone who's been with them for such a long time, would suddenly do this.

Who would have believed him if he suddenly went out and said it? He would have been ostracized, people would have called him a queer who's jealous that the coach didn't reciprocate his feelings. After all the coach was a well respected trainer and he was just a young 20 something year old kid.

[walrus]

I get the jokes and crass humor but people always claim what they would do in a situation and truth be told no one can honestly say how they would react if their coach, somewho who they trust and someone who's been with them for such a long time, would suddenly do this.

Who would have believed him if he suddenly went out and said it? He would have been ostracized, people would have called him a queer who's jealous that the coach didn't reciprocate his feelings. After all the coach was a well respected trainer and he was just a young 20 something year old kid.

I can't say I would have kicked his ass but I wouldn't let my cock remain in his mouth. I probably would have said no thank you and not call or send flowers

[Gandalf]

I don't think anybody would deny that it is abuse, but most would resist in some way and certainly as a 22 year old man. 22 isn't 12, you are a man of the world at that age and a boxer too. If someone went near my flies, then they would have an immediate knee in the face. Now wouldn't that be the reaction of most? Would you just sit there, get a hard on, and allow someone to suck you off? It sounds weird because it is weird.

[beenKOed]

Leonard is the victim in this and should not be blamed for the indecent assault. The abuser used his position of trust and he should be the one targeted. It is easy to say what you would do now but in that situation you may not know what to do or react.

Normally I'd agree with you, but a 22 year old should have things figured out.
The thing is, I really don't care one way or the other, everyone is welcome to be as gay as they want, it's just curious the way he tells it.

[imp]

Leonard is the victim in this and should not be blamed for the indecent assault. The abuser used his position of trust and he should be the one targeted. It is easy to say what you would do now but in that situation you may not know what to do or react.

Normally I'd agree with you, but a 22 year old should have things figured out.
The thing is, I really don't care one way or the other, everyone is welcome to be as gay as they want, it's just curious the way he tells it.

Exactly.

Leonard wasnt under 16.
He was a man. He might still be fighting his true feelings to this day.

[SugarBoxing]

Personally, I find it childish
SRL was a notorious bad father to his own children, he abused them in a certain sense because of his selfishness and ego. Personally, I believe, this is where he should have acted like a man, not by sharing his child abuse experience

[Master]

Personally, I find it childish
SRL was a notorious bad father to his own children, he abused them in a certain sense because of his selfishness and ego. Personally, I believe, this is where he should have acted like a man, not by sharing his child abuse experience

let him who is without sin cast the first stone.

[SugarBoxing]

Personally, I find it childish
SRL was a notorious bad father to his own children, he abused them in a certain sense because of his selfishness and ego. Personally, I believe, this is where he should have acted like a man, not by sharing his child abuse experience

let him who is without sin cast the first stone.

I am righteous and i can share my opinion anytime

[ykdadamaja]

If he felt it was inappropriate, let him speak on it. No man would just jump up and say that- especially when no one asked him about it before. He volunteered the information to the public. Let's let this speak for itself, without judging him and without casting the blame on him,