Mate,it happened. That isnt racist its a fact,as a community we voted to help them out as a community they ripped us off. Its just a fact that they operate on completely different principles than we do here.

OF COURSE NOT ALL ALBANIANS DO THIS! Why get emotional on fact?
Why we cant we tell it how it is?
You have to read it as if Im a racist?

Ive had this exact conversation with an Albanian right up front, a guy I worked for for a couple of weeks. (If I held anything against them, I wouldnt of worked for him I would of made the excuse I had too much on and left) But I had this exact conversation with him and another because a friend who deals antiques got taken for 200 grand of stock ad when he went to get paid got to look down a barrrel and told if he wants to take it further his family will become involved.So I had the conversation, cause i wanted to make sure I was to be paid and he knew why the conversation arose and was upstanding and outstanding and Albanian. This guy ,whos other family members they have to see on occasions, he tells me he fears. He tells his kids dont take anything from these people no promises no plans to meet up with their kids,anytime, anywhere, nothing,drums it into them! That is very sad for him and his family. Thats because they'll turn up with something they will 'have to mind' or call it in later as some favor.. "Hey come on we shouted you out onto the go carts come on you owe us this " and bang this guys kids later in life would be drawn into their 'game' unwittingly.

That is straight from within their own family.

What should I have said to him?

Im hugely disappointed for this unabated stereo typing?