I've been in the same situation as Rice though, and I'm sure most guys probably have, where you have a woman antagonize you and antagonize you, even start attacking you, and you see red and want more than anything in the world to hit her in that second. But I think in any civilized person, there should be some barrier in your head that won't let you do it. For a guy like Ray Rice to hit her so hard to knock her out, or a guy like Chris Brown to do a prolonged beating on Rihana... that's just savage, criminal behaviour.