I walked in on my old man beating mom around one time. Had it not been for a stuck jacked up lever on his Marlin and a terrified older sister I would have been a bastard before 12. Easily in that moment. You don't Frazier the fuck outta people you love. This guy is a professional athlete with 300lb men talking shit and antagonizing him on a weekly basis. You gotta keep your head correct and sort out your major malfunctions.