I sort of get what you are saying Miles, socially in clubs to pick up it looks silly and so obvious like hundreds of seals on beach on all rising up and bumping along slobbering over each other.
Its more difficult to dance if you have a pole up your ass from those thoughts so alcohol could be just the stick remover required.

I wouldnt mind learning basic rock n roll steps just for the exercise if out and making your woman attended to, as they seem to like that shit.

Dance can be amazing its art as well.

This is on another level:


Love this ladies work: