I have a family member who owns me money... Refuse to answear my phone calls and texts but on family meeting he says he's going to transfer money to me right when he gets back home... He said that for 6 months now, is it acceptable to beat the shit outta him? He's 30 and got two daughters... He owes me a little over 2 grand...

Not the same as your case you can't beat a girl but in my case Its bout a boy