Take the woman next door in the UK. 3 kids, 3 different Dads, mother on benefits letting the kids run riot while she smokes weed all day. That's not good. Then next door with us lot and our tragic back story. I won't talk about about it all with my family as it gets too screwed up. It really is everywhere. Even when the parents do not break up look at the horror Brock went through. We are creating a really bad situation. You really don't get so much of this in other societies. Why have kids if you are not going to be there for them? Why bother? We see with the rise of STD's that people are willing to sleep with anyone and unfortunately this is where all too many kids come from. Then we wonder why there are so many damaged kids. You bring up the single mother rate in black communities and the first thing you hear is 'racist'. It's not cool.