If you think this guy is being unfair to you, f him. Don't put up with that garbage. Plenty of good trainers out there who'll be good to you and have faith in you.

Sometimes I feel slighted in my gym because I'm not a future golden boy. It's funny how trainers gravitate towards certain guys for whatever reason... the black trainers like the black guys more it seems, the other trainers like the guys with more experience, etc.

Go with a guy who belives in you and will work with you. F the others. I work with two guys and two guys only. Of the other two at our gym, one ignores me because I'm not a top contender and the other ignores me because I'm not black. So f 'em both.