I can imagine them then, "We don't have time for that. Why don't you pester your brothers..." You should thank your bros next time you see them, tell them that because of all that you can better cope in a Man-Sport like boxing.

I must your polar opposite then, because I find I love the chaos that comes for boxing, it's not your regular day in and day lifestyles. Sometimes I become a bundle of nerves but what helps is just getting up and doing something even when everyone else isn't on the same page as me. The only problem of mine is I have trouble staying in touch with people whether they are good friends of mine or my own flesh and blood.

I guess what you need is a constant that you can take with. Some can just blot it out in there minds, you on the other hand need to loosen up, maybe a distraction could help after all.