It's like I just told you, it's learning for both of you. You don't want to short change yourself by just trying to give it to her easy, neither of you get anything out of that. Stay alert, if she makes a wrong move don't hesitate to give back. Sparring is all give and take in the end, you gotta take something with you. Why not also work on polishing your punches, strive to make them better each time, do things with reason, work it out before you spar so you don't hesitate when it really counts.