You're confusing me now Chris - are you saying I have girlfriends? I'm not a lesbian - not that I think theres anything wrong with that.

Thanks for your advice too Troy - I know what you mean and while I won't KO her I'm a bantamweight so I can throw a lot of leather and a reasonable amount of power without KOing her so i will gradually build it up until she stops charging and then I'll hold it at that intensity if she likes that or back it off if she doesn't.

She's not a weak little girl so maybe she wants a bit more action in her sparring sessions - who knows maybe thats what she's trying to say? As she gets better and closer to fighting she probably needs to feel something closer to what she'll face in the ring anyway.