Snakeys 1yr relationship ended and now hes gutted!

[JT Rock]

I called her today and i think im fucked. We are going to talk on monday, face to face. But i asked her if there was any chance of us getting back together and she said she didnt know. I asked whether she really meant it last week when she said she didnt love me. She said she wasnt sure, she said she think so but doesnt know. And i asked her how she was going and she said really well. She said that shes going to think about getting back together.






So come monday im fucked, basically im just turning up to find out what went wrong and that she doesnt want me back.

You shouldnt have called DAMMIT you did not give yourself ample time to pull it together.. You probably sounded shaky and desperate and gave her the upper hand. You should have waited till got you shit together and composed yourself so that you can talk to her and make a last ditch mature ADULT effort to reason with her and plead your case.

The few weeks would have helped you master your emotions better so you would appear like you were going on with your life just fine(huge psychological advantage)

[donnydarkoIRL]

Dude, no matter what be strong from here on in, we're here buddy

[Snakey]

I called her today and i think im fucked. We are going to talk on monday, face to face. But i asked her if there was any chance of us getting back together and she said she didnt know. I asked whether she really meant it last week when she said she didnt love me. She said she wasnt sure, she said she think so but doesnt know. And i asked her how she was going and she said really well. She said that shes going to think about getting back together.






So come monday im fucked, basically im just turning up to find out what went wrong and that she doesnt want me back.

You shouldnt have called DAMMIT you did not give yourself ample time to pull it together.. You probably sounded shaky and desperate and gave her the upper hand. You should have waited till got you shit together and composed yourself so that you can talk to her and make a last ditch mature ADULT effort to reason with her and plead your case.

The few weeks would have helped you master your emotions better so you would appear like you were going on with your life just fine(huge psychological advantage)

Mate im going to do that when i meet her. But it looks like i left it too late if anything. Coz she seems really happy and when i asked if she missed me she said a little bit. So im guessing im pretty much fucked and im gonna walk into the firing squad with my head held up high and hope i dont take too many shots to the heart.

[Snakey]

Well todays the day. Snakey feels like hes going to walk into a firing squad


But you know what...if im going down i aint going down without a fight! Im not gonna let her step over me! Im going to tell her exactly what her think and if that changes her mind then so be it but if it doesnt then oh well i guess.



Currently listening to No Easy Way out (the song out of rocky) being played by Bullet for my valentine so im pretty amped!

[boozeboxer]

Good luck Snakey

[Douglas]

They should write more songs like that.

If she turns you down for good, just say "Well be that way then ya skinny old maid!!!

[CFH]

Good luck Snakey, regardless of whether or not I agree with what you're doing, you've got some balls.
This reminds me of an old Sepultura lyric, "When you go down, you go down fighting."
I hope it all works out for ya.

[Snakey]

Yeah guys im on lunch break at the moment and im seeing her after work. Im beginning to phsyc myself up, im listening to how long by hinder and no easy way out by bullet for my valentine. Im going down fighting guys, just know that. Im not just gonna bow down and say ok. Im going to make sure i get a proper answer, i need her back or i need closure. So im getting either one today!