Hey FightFan , Congratulations bro.....now you will see what is good man.......look , i have 16 Years married and i cant complain bro....try to enjoy your Marriage first before have a kids , if you already have it , well no problem , but now the economic problems isnt good for planning that .........To me the 5-6 Years of marriege are the most harder , if you pass that , you probably will pass the test
Isnt easy to handle a marriage man , but with patience you will , if sometimes your wife wants fight , get your car and go..........

"Congratulations my Friend"