Quote Originally Posted by Sharla View Post
It is you. It is not what it is - you are what you decide to do and be.

No one is perfect. I'm glad you're not bragging about it anymore.

I think if you hate your wife you should split up with her and find another way to support yourself.

Even if it wasn't a permanent split and the two of you decided to get back together in a year or two when you're older and more mature it'd be better than becoming whatever you would call what you're heading towards.
I hate her but not hate hate, its just anger. I married her for a real reason, I do love her. Shes not supporting me financially but she does make more. I pay for my side but she has more furniture more things more belongings.

I did try to talk to her about taking some time of, and she just threw that idea at my face. She told me, we are not boyfriend girlfriend anymore! we are married, there is no time out in this! That idea made me look like a foolish teenager really. She usually comes down on me with my age. She thought the idea was immature but I was trying to explain to her that it may help in the long run. She says no though cause she does not want me away. She loves me I know she tells me a lot. Our parents just say its newly wed bumbs and it usually goes away after the first year or two.

Her mother tells her to lay of the age difference between us because age does not matter. Plus my mother in law believes that I am usually more mature than the usually 21 year old. Infact she tells me that it is her daughter that can be very immature and possessive. we all have our pro's and con's. I know what I did is wrong and no matter how crazy my wife drives me i should not have been doing them. I honestly just did it, and honestly enjoyed it. What I did will just add more problems to what we already had. i know this and now although I fear having to tell her i know I must.