Quote Originally Posted by Sharla View Post
Quote Originally Posted by Julius Rain View Post
I know what I did is wrong and no matter how crazy my wife drives me i should not have been doing them. I honestly just did it, and honestly enjoyed it. What I did will just add more problems to what we already had. i know this and now although I fear having to tell her i know I must.
Notice I deleted the rest because it's all wa wa wa - sook sook sook - cry cry cry. Man the F up!

Leave it at the last paragraph and people wouldn't be so disgusted by you Julius.

You want everyone to think you're a great guy again - start behaving like one - forget the excuses - and take some positive action.
You should work in marriage guidance Sharla, such a lovely gentle manner

Seriously if you can get so angry about a situation that has nothing to do with you to the point that it makes you completely cold towards Julius don't you think it's just possible that him actually living 24/7 in a loveless marriage might just make him feel cold towards her and vice versa?

If you can't show any compassion to a young lad who obviously married too soon pouring his heart out in a forum then how do you think you'd have any more compassion and love for someone you were stuck with who in that moment you felt only anger towards?

Rains has feelings and emotions just like any of you, as does his wife. People make mistakes, people fall out of love, people even end up having affairs when a relationship goes sour.

It's part of life, nobody is perfect, we all make mistakes and we all do things that are wrong.