
Originally Posted by
Bilbo

Originally Posted by
Sharla
Notice I deleted the rest because it's all wa wa wa - sook sook sook - cry cry cry. Man the F up!
Leave it at the last paragraph and people wouldn't be so disgusted by you Julius.
You want everyone to think you're a great guy again - start behaving like one - forget the excuses - and take some positive action.
You should work in marriage guidance Sharla, such a lovely gentle manner
Seriously if you can get so angry about a situation that has nothing to do with you to the point that it makes you completely cold towards Julius don't you think it's just possible that him actually living 24/7 in a loveless marriage might just make him feel cold towards her and vice versa?
If you can't show any compassion to a young lad who obviously married too soon pouring his heart out in a forum then how do you think you'd have any more compassion and love for someone you were stuck with who in that moment you felt only anger towards?
Rains has feelings and emotions just like any of you, as does his wife. People make mistakes, people fall out of love, people even end up having affairs when a relationship goes sour.
It's part of life, nobody is perfect, we all make mistakes and we all do things that are wrong.
Most of us react with shame and regret when we do things that are wrong.
We don't go onto public forums, brag about it, refer to the knocked up girl as a 'cunt', attempt to order an abortion etc etc etc.
Plus there are mistakes and there are mistakes.
I can be disgusted by Julius regardless of whether you agree with me or not because he bragged about it on a public forum.
If he wanted someone to suck him off, justify his behaviour and even worship him for it the way he expected he should have just PMed you!
He accidentally went out of his way to find time in his busy schedule to screw around on his wife. We've ascertained his wife would never do that and hasn't even ever shagged anyone else in her life. He had a series of one nighters scot free. Plenty of time to think - you know - maybe bad idea.
Not only that he chose to do it unprotected - we all have had the birds and the bees explained to us. We've all heard of STDs. He knew what he was playing with.
Whatever touchy feely feelings he may have I'm not going to listen to him make excuses for that and justify it.
He found himself in a difficult relationship he should have done what most people would have done and end it.
At the very least he should have worn a
condom. he was just WAITING for something to happen whether it was a pregnancy or and STD he HAD to have known something would happen.
No sympathy for that. He's playing with life whether it's the creation of it or the destruction of it and that's serious.
Before I reached an age where I was able to reproduce I knew that was wrong.
I seem to remember a thread where Julius got all POd at Missy for a religious disagreement. Now he goes against his religion with his own actions and he doesn't expect people to go against it but actually has the nerve to brag!
What would people in your church have to say about this Julius?!?!
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