Re: Time to break it to this Pac groupie

Originally Posted by
Deanrw

Originally Posted by
ICB

Originally Posted by
Violent Demise
You talking about Pacfan? He a good poster. Never once had a problem with him.
Pacfan was a great poster i always got on with him, very respectful and never tried to stir crap up, speaking of which i haven't heard from him in a awhile i hope he is ok.
Pacfan is an awesome fellow. He is by far one of the nicest people on this forum. If you do not know him, get to know him. He is a great chap.

Originally Posted by
Spicoli surfs 'Nawlins
Nice turn in this thread....hugs all around

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And most def on Pacfan.....awesome dude,knows his history also.

Originally Posted by
CFH

Originally Posted by
Deanrw

Originally Posted by
ICB
Pacfan was a great poster i always got on with him, very respectful and never tried to stir crap up, speaking of which i haven't heard from him in a awhile i hope he is ok.
Pacfan is an awesome fellow. He is by far one of the nicest people on this forum. If you do not know him, get to know him. He is a great chap.
I agree, he's a very interesting person. I've always enjoyed conversing with him.
Hey Misters, didn't you guys know that it ain't nice to speak behind someone's back . . .
. . . hahaaaa, many thanks, fellas, for those nice words.
I see some familiar faces out there: ol' time buddy, Ice; Favorite mod (together with Andre, and our newly installed sheriff, Fenster) Mick; my duel-mate Violent D - hey, hold your squirt-gun down for this moment; my fellow veteran, a war buddy, Spicoli; my Canadian buddy, CFH; and...
most of all, my fellow catman, DeanRW - thanks Dean for this link...
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Now for some preaching
, sorry about that but I'm in a mood for it:
You know guys, when someone here, or anywhere else for that matter, starts to throw not-so-nice words at me, instead of getting upset and cry - 'that damnn bastardd really pizzing me off, so I'm gonna send him off to heeell,' - I blame myself more than I blame the other guy. You know why? it's because we reap what we sow. I mean I must have done something to provoke him. It could be something I said, or just my attitude - you know, that overall state of mind you were in at that time that cast a corresponding aura or shadow around you which affects everything you do. So beware of what you do and what or how you feel - they will magnetize appropriate responses, good or bad, and it's all up to you.
That's the main reason I have been reluctant to give much advice here on some 'help me' threads. Sometimes, I have to say something very frank, brutal ones, about someone's condition that he probably would not be able to swallow. One example is about the sleeping pills - valium, ativan or whatever they call 'em. I read several threads about people having problem with them. You shouldn't mess around with those stuffs unless you're pushed to the edge and you're on the brink. Those stuffs mess up your whole physio-psychological balance and almost all people who're hooked on them know that they are not themselves anymore, I mean like, 'I'm not myself today.' That's just one example. I've got some not so nice response for some of those advices I made, no matter how well intended, and so I decided not to assert myself too much on those things. For most cases, I believe in the philosophy that one should find one's own solution to his problems in life because that's natural part of his development process in this world. One another problem with many people who ask for advices are that they actually want to hear only those things they want to hear. The most common example of this is couples asking advice as to whether they should get married or not. In most cases, they just want confirmation, nothing else, and so if you suggest otherwise, they'll just get upset; sounds familiar, right?
Sorry about the long monologue. Being a full-fledged philosopher of sort, I love talking about these things, and if I had the time, I can go on and on - and on. But fortunately for you guys
, I haven't got enough time for them. So for now, just don't forget the ancient saying, 'you reap what you sow.'
Adios for now, my friends.
Once in awhile, get outside in fresh air, take a deep breath & with a deep sigh, let out all the things that's bottled up inside you & be free, & you'll get a glimpse of nirvana.
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