the people who stay in on friday nights...

[ICB]

Such crap really.

It's always insecure people who wanna gang up on others as if they are not up to scratch with their lifestyle - not 'cool' enough.

Insecure about yourself and your own lifestyle therefore you need the company and want to peer pressure others into the same choices you made.

Lefty has things he's into they're just not the same as what you're into.

I don't see any good reason why what you're into is any better but i can think of many a reason your lifestyle could be worse for you in the long run and i can promise you it would bore me shitless!

Leave him alone.

I agree its absolute nonsense my dad who has passed away, was a drunk and he would get pissed mostly every night. Which is the reason he and my mom got divorced. And also the reason i had a bad falling out with him and its also the reason he wasn't living with us.

I say good on Lee im 19 and i don't drink either and do you blame me ? and why should i ? to follow what everyone else is doing ? i ain't no sheep i'll do what i want i don't follow anyone. I don't see the enjoyment of getting pissed everynight when you don't even what your doing in that state.

Does that mean you have to be out of your head to be a fun person ? because you can't do it in your normal state ? and who wants to wake up feeling like shit and puking ? i say stuff that for a game of toy soliders IMO. Just because i don't drink doesn't mean im not a fun person, and im doing pretty well without it and i live a perfectly heathly life style.

One last message to Lee don't listen to these people on here, take it from me don't do anything you don't want to do. And don't let people force you to do anything you don't want to do, you sound like a good lad with good sense so good on you.

[leftylee]

Such crap really.

It's always insecure people who wanna gang up on others as if they are not up to scratch with their lifestyle - not 'cool' enough.

Insecure about yourself and your own lifestyle therefore you need the company and want to peer pressure others into the same choices you made.

Lefty has things he's into they're just not the same as what you're into.

I don't see any good reason why what you're into is any better but i can think of many a reason your lifestyle could be worse for you in the long run and i can promise you it would bore me shitless!

Leave him alone.

I agree its absolute nonsense my dad who has passed away, was a drunk and he would get pissed mostly every night. Which is the reason he and my mom got divorced. And also the reason i had a bad falling out with him and its also the reason he wasn't living with us.

I say good on Lee im 19 and i don't drink either and do you blame me ? and why should i ? to follow what everyone else is doing ? i ain't no sheep i'll do what i want i don't follow anyone. I don't see the enjoyment of getting pissed everynight when you don't even what your doing in that state.

Does that mean you have to be out of your head to be a fun person ? because you can't do it in your normal state ? and who wants to wake up feeling like shit and puking ? i say stuff that for a game of toy soliders IMO. Just because i don't drink doesn't mean im not a fun person, and im doing pretty well without it and i live a perfectly heathly life style.

One last message to Lee don't listen to these people on here, take it from me don't do anything you don't want to do. And don't let people force you to do anything you don't want to do, you sound like a good lad with good sense so good on you.

Totally agree with you mate.

It's not what I want to do and I won't do it. I don't do anything just because my friends do. My friends know that. I hate alcohol, it's absoloutely vile. I've never touched drugs, tobacco etc and never will. I'm worth more than that crap.

People can say my life is boring but it ain't. I'm in a good college and I'm predicted top grades in my A-Levels. The world is my oyster really. I can choose most jobs because of the grades I'm getting.

I've got my driving test soon and I'm going to buy a car in a few weeks. I have a part time job as well and I've got a healthy bank account with a lot of savings. Most 17yr olds by me are broke big time. I'm always hanging out with girls as well and I have a good social life. I get asked to partys all the time. In 2009 I'm going to Perth, Australia for 3 months to hang out with my cousin. I can't wait for that. In 2009 I'm also doing a tour of the US for my 18th.

Until Preme meets me in real life he can't judge me on nothing. If anybody met me on here I'm really laid-back. Always making jokes. Not the typical scouse lad but it's good to be unique.

And Preme I find it laughable you trying to give me advice. I don't need advice from you. My life is fine. Look where getting pissed each night got you. Your basic English skills are certainly upto standard with spelling, NOT

[amat]

It's one thing not to drink but you don't have to brag about it, geez isn't that the type of stuff you keep otl?

Haha I'm only kidding (if anyone is talking to me), different strokes though I will say in real life when I hear people who don't do shit talk about how empowered they are from not doing anything then I get super annoyed. Save me it please.

Also Lefty if you come to America I genuiinely want you to visit the West Coast, I think it would be a great experience. Hit me up or something but just know that California is better then the rest of America so this is where you should come.

[amat]

And please don't say the world is your oyster.

[leftylee]

And please don't say the world is your oyster.

Why not ? I can choose most jobs in the world.

That's a common phrase in the UK "The World is your oyster".

[Gandalf]

And please don't say the world is your oyster.

Why not ? I can choose most jobs in the world.

That's a common phrase in the UK "The World is your oyster".

Getting decent grades in your A levels doesnt mean you can choose most jobs in the world. In fact it means you can start low down and try and work your way up somewhere.

I got 2 A's at A level and here I am 10 years later finishing my MA trying to get my perks.

[RP33]

And please don't say the world is your oyster.

Why not ? I can choose most jobs in the world.

That's a common phrase in the UK "The World is your oyster".

Getting decent grades in your A levels doesnt mean you can choose most jobs in the world. In fact it means you can start low down and try and work your way up somewhere.

I got 2 A's at A level and here I am 10 years later finishing my MA trying to get my perks.

If i can give any advice, at least from an American stand point.. grades don't mean shite.. It's all about experience.. The only things grade matters on are certifications, meaning, you have to score a certain grade to get the certification..

Not to say that it's not a good idea to do well in school, because if you are doing well then you are learning new skills, but i wouldn't consider the fact that i was getting A's being a deciding factor in an employers decision to hire me.. The way i see it, my schooling put me in a position to understand the training i will receive at a job i am hired at, it gave me the basic tools i need to become successful.

[RP33]

Also Lefty if you come to America I genuiinely want you to visit the West Coast, I think it would be a great experience. Hit me up or something but just know that California is better then the rest of America so this is where you should come.

and by California he means New York

[amat]

Also Lefty if you come to America I genuiinely want you to visit the West Coast, I think it would be a great experience. Hit me up or something but just know that California is better then the rest of America so this is where you should come.

and by California he means New York

Aren't you in Buffalo?

[amat]

Also most people don't smoke or drink because everybody else does it they do it because it's fucking fantastic which it is but of course everything has to be in moderation. You don't drink because you feel shitty the next morning you do it so you feel great that night.


I can see how one would not want to pop 5 in a night or why you wouldn't want to rail a bunch or smoke chewey like a motherfuckin nut. Still, doing that stuff just makes you crazy not a sheep. Later yall, OFF TO SMOKE AND DRINK HAHAAH

[amat]

False alarm the heater in the house turned on I thought it was the sound of a car out front. Oops.

[Sharla]

It's one thing not to drink but you don't have to brag about it, geez isn't that the type of stuff you keep otl?

Why?

How many threads do we hear of you or preme bragging about how shitfaced you are or have been in recent times?

Why should anyone feel ashamed of not being a drinker?

And please don't say the world is your oyster.

Why not - everyone should try to feel that way - you included. How can you ever work hard towards going and getting what you want -regardless of what it is - if you don't believe that?

ooh, some mighty self righteous posting here from the squeaky clean crowd.

It's not self righteous at all. Amat and Preme wanted to gang up on Lefty for not being a drinker. All we did was defend his right not to be one.

I also think it's pretty targeted - lets pick on the 17 year old and tell him his life is boring but don't touch the multitude of other people who have posted on here saying they prefer a quiet night etc. Target the young one because everyone else is a bit older and more established in their choices.

Also most people don't smoke or drink because everybody else does it they do it because it's fucking fantastic which it is but of course everything has to be in moderation.

Here we go - you initiate a pay out directed at Lefty for not drinking and suddenly now you're on the defensive about your own lifestyle. What was it I said about insecure people?

He has the right to justify his choices as does Nonito and as do I if you attack them. You and Preme are the ones who said our choices were pathetic to begin with.

You can enjoy drinking anfd that's fine. i'm not the type to have more than a small amount - a small amount makes me fieel tipsy and it' nice around good friends or family in a safe environment.

On the other hand more than a little makes me feel inebriated and i hate that feeling. I genuinely don't enjoy it. To me it's not fantastic at all.

My experience of things can be just as individual as anything else. This is basically like people walking into a restaurant and dissing other people for not ordering what they would have on the menu. None of your business whether Lefty likes to drink or not.

[RP33]

Also Lefty if you come to America I genuiinely want you to visit the West Coast, I think it would be a great experience. Hit me up or something but just know that California is better then the rest of America so this is where you should come.

and by California he means New York

Aren't you in Buffalo?

nope, i'm in RI but i'm moving to NY and am there basically every weekend.. I'm actually a lot closer to NYC than Buffalo is, in case that was confusing.

[leftylee]

It's one thing not to drink but you don't have to brag about it, geez isn't that the type of stuff you keep otl?

Haha I'm only kidding (if anyone is talking to me), different strokes though I will say in real life when I hear people who don't do shit talk about how empowered they are from not doing anything then I get super annoyed. Save me it please.

Also Lefty if you come to America I genuiinely want you to visit the West Coast, I think it would be a great experience. Hit me up or something but just know that California is better then the rest of America so this is where you should come.

That's were I'm going.

Santa Monica, Los Angeles, Hollywood.

I think I'm going to San Francisco as well.

[Violent Demise]

It's one thing not to drink but you don't have to brag about it, geez isn't that the type of stuff you keep otl?

Haha I'm only kidding (if anyone is talking to me), different strokes though I will say in real life when I hear people who don't do shit talk about how empowered they are from not doing anything then I get super annoyed. Save me it please.

Also Lefty if you come to America I genuiinely want you to visit the West Coast, I think it would be a great experience. Hit me up or something but just know that California is better then the rest of America so this is where you should come.

That's were I'm going.

Santa Monica, Los Angeles, Hollywood.

I think I'm going to San Francisco as well.

Lefty is coming to visit Violent D. By the way, Amat is right. California is better than rest of America. Bottom line. California is America,