I Think It's a Bad Idea, but Tell My Wife That

[C-Lo]

A couple days ago, my wife and I were coming home from work. She told me about a female co-worker who she is friendly with getting upset with her husband because she has been trying to lose weight and her husband said something about he was about to go work out. For some reason, I don't know what, this was upsetting. But my wife advised her to have him watch their daughter during a time she knew he wanted to go exercise. I think that's a wee bit petty, but regardless of whether or not it was good advice, I think it's bad policy for a woman to be advising another woman about what she should be doing in her marriage. To me it just has too much potential to blow up in your face, especially if you are friends with the person. I think the best thing to do is listen and nod in agreement to whatever they say. Maybe if you're good friends you can tell the person they have done something wrong if they have, but don't tell the person what they should or shouldn't be doing in their relationship. I know I would not respond positively if my wife, in mid-argument, said something like, "Sylvia said I should blah-blah-blah." First, I'd be pissed she was talking about our business with other people. Second, I'd be calling up Sylvia to give her a piece of my mind and advising her to butt the hell out my business. I think something like this could happen to my wife if she continues to feel the necessity of being an advisor in such an inappropriate fashion. What say you guys?

When I first read that sentence I was like "Oh SNAP! I smell a three-way story!" Then I read through and saddened at the thought that it wasn't

Either way, I'm with you. Let the married couple deal with their own problems. Imagine if they got a divorce over advice someone gave them?!

[RP33]

A couple days ago, my wife and I were coming home from work. She told me about a female co-worker who she is friendly with getting upset with her husband because she has been trying to lose weight and her husband said something about he was about to go work out. For some reason, I don't know what, this was upsetting. But my wife advised her to have him watch their daughter during a time she knew he wanted to go exercise. I think that's a wee bit petty, but regardless of whether or not it was good advice, I think it's bad policy for a woman to be advising another woman about what she should be doing in her marriage. To me it just has too much potential to blow up in your face, especially if you are friends with the person. I think the best thing to do is listen and nod in agreement to whatever they say. Maybe if you're good friends you can tell the person they have done something wrong if they have, but don't tell the person what they should or shouldn't be doing in their relationship. I know I would not respond positively if my wife, in mid-argument, said something like, "Sylvia said I should blah-blah-blah." First, I'd be pissed she was talking about our business with other people. Second, I'd be calling up Sylvia to give her a piece of my mind and advising her to butt the hell out my business. I think something like this could happen to my wife if she continues to feel the necessity of being an advisor in such an inappropriate fashion. What say you guys?

When I first read that sentence I was like "Oh SNAP! I smell a three-way story!" Then I read through and saddened at the thought that it wasn't

Either way, I'm with you. Let the married couple deal with their own problems. Imagine if they got a divorce over advice someone gave them?!

i thought the same thing!! ahahah..

anyway, agree that that was a strange bit of advice to give someone..

anyway, i'd love for the girl i marry to be in great shape, and to more or less stay that way.. i know that isn't really the topic here, but if you're going to spend the rest of your life with someone, you shouldn't cease satisfying their wants/needs so long as it is within reason..