yeah thats true, i studied sport psychology and it said there were two types of people - people who have a 'need to achieve' and people who had a 'fear of failire' the latter usually did worse so that must be like the same kinna thing. Yes i think i need to focus more on having fun. But as soon as i see who it is im fighting im nearly sick. I just always assume they will be better than me and then they usually are coz i freak out lol. Guess its kinna a self fufilling prophecy. I tried the visualisation thing but it makes me focus so much on wionning that wen the fight starts and it doesnt go my way i kinna lose it coz its not what i visualised lol!