5 blows to the back of the head

**amat** · 07-14-2009 07:14 PM

Everyone should get off their high horse if they aren't going to offer help. And not everyone responds to help after being torn down so the comments are likely doing no good. We aren't in her situation, she asked for help we should leave it at that. True there are probably better places to seek help but come on leave the dogs at home, anyone who boxes here or has ever boxed has most likely had their bell rung behind the ear or in the back of the head at least once. I'm sure that's what she figured.

Anyways, I would talk to a doctor like those said. You could just lie about who it was, a doctor should be more interested in offering help then looking to prosecute someone. I would definitely consult a doctor.

**Chris Nagel** · 07-14-2009 11:57 PM

People often look for help in unlikely places.

**Howlin Mad Missy** · 07-15-2009 09:02 AM

I still find it unlikely.

What if her fella is a boxing fan or checks her browsing history.....

**AdamGB** · 07-17-2009 04:44 PM

Originally Posted by amat

Everyone should get off their high horse if they aren't going to offer help.

In my book 'help' would be trying to reason with somebody that being around somebody who is capable of kicking their head 5 times like a football is pretty unacceptable... I don't think encouraging the situation to be maintained likely counts as help. however futile I think it might be trying I'm still not going to say nothing.

It surely doesn't take a particularly high horse to be in a position to say that does it?

I'm going to have to lock this, like I said Youngblood has said everything that needs to be said and this board isn't really intended to discuss domestic abuse.

I will offer one piece of 'help' though, if this is genuine then it's probably not too good an idea to make a written document of what has happened... your 'man' could possibly check your browsing history and find this, also if you're worried about the police - your modem has an IP address on it so this message could be traced back to you.

Next time just tell the doctor you got mugged or something? Unless a repeat visit to the Dr's would have social services coming to the door and hauling this bum off?