Getting cheated on!!!

[jabvargas24]

hahaha.. We are both still in school together so i think trying to avoid her completely will be difficult. And shes one of the few ppl i can still trust with anything..

You don't have to be hostile towards her, although you may feel like doing that. Just treat her like a casual aquaintance....don't share too much with her, don't show emotion to her, just basically become disinterested in who she is, what she does, how she feels, etc.......she'll either get the message and move on or she could become even more interested in you which could be a problem because she'll only break your heart again...but you could ride that out while it lasts, just don't get booty blind and figure that relationship is something that it isn't

If you two remain "Just friends" resentment will rear it's head...either she'll cockblock you or you'll get jealous of her seeing someone, but either way it's just going to build up to where you two argue all the time and it's no good for anyone.

Women are fickle, they want what they can't have and they don't want what they can have, but they do not NOT want what they can have.....if you can get that. They are basically all bat shit crazy (some more than others) and guys are just along for the ride.

That may be some of the best advice i've ever heard.

[El Kabong]

That may be some of the best advice i've ever heard.

Thanks....I just know I've been where you are right now, it totally sucks and you figure it's always going to feel like this but you grow, you learn, and you figure things out about life, girls, and more importantly yourself and what you will and won't accept in your life and that's what matters. You can choose to be all down and depressed about this or you can say "fuck it" and do what everyone wishes they did when they were in school....ask out the hottest chicks you can and don't be afraid to if you ask out 100 chicks hotter than this girl you're all worked up over the odds are at least 1 (maybe more ) will take you up on your offer and heck the rest is down hill after that man.

Have fun, be happy, don't waste your youth being depressed or jealous, or hung up on some girl who at this point in her life doesn't know her ass from a hole in the ground.

[jabvargas24]

That may be some of the best advice i've ever heard.

Thanks....I just know I've been where you are right now, it totally sucks and you figure it's always going to feel like this but you grow, you learn, and you figure things out about life, girls, and more importantly yourself and what you will and won't accept in your life and that's what matters. You can choose to be all down and depressed about this or you can say "fuck it" and do what everyone wishes they did when they were in school....ask out the hottest chicks you can and don't be afraid to if you ask out 100 chicks hotter than this girl you're all worked up over the odds are at least 1 (maybe more ) will take you up on your offer and heck the rest is down hill after that man.

Have fun, be happy, don't waste your youth being depressed or jealous, or hung up on some girl who at this point in her life doesn't know her ass from a hole in the ground.

Haha thanks bruh. I appreciate the help.. Startin to feel better already.

[Spicoli]

Man. That sucks I feel for you. Happenend to me in highschool with someone I loved very much. ** edit **. Hard as it is don't retreat to anger,it will eat you up !! Cheapens you and ruins potential.

[Conrad]

Been there too dude! Probably the lowest I have ever been in my life was after I found out my ex was fucking somebody else. I'm big enough to admit that it took me a good year to get over her. She ripped me inside out as I thought she was 'the one'

But you know time really is the great healer and I can't stress enough to have absolutely ZERO contact with her. Out of sight is out of mind. Every text or phone call just prolongs the agony.

Also get laid elsewhere as much as possible!! I promise you this will make you feel better or at the very least take your mind off her for the time being. Before you know it you'll meet somebody else and all the hurt she caused will just be a memory!

I couldn't imagine it at the time but what my ex did to me turned out to be the best thing that ever happened. I ended up with a girl 10 times as hot and better than my ex in every single department.

[jabvargas24]

I appreciate the support guys. Thanks!

[BIG H]

Been there too dude! Probably the lowest I have ever been in my life was after I found out my ex was fucking somebody else. I'm big enough to admit that it took me a good year to get over her. She ripped me inside out as I thought she was 'the one'

But you know time really is the great healer and I can't stress enough to have absolutely ZERO contact with her. Out of sight is out of mind. Every text or phone call just prolongs the agony.

Also get laid elsewhere as much as possible!! I promise you this will make you feel better or at the very least take your mind off her for the time being. Before you know it you'll meet somebody else and all the hurt she caused will just be a memory!

I couldn't imagine it at the time but what my ex did to me turned out to be the best thing that ever happened. I ended up with a girl 10 times as hot and better than my ex in every single department.

That is top advice imo

[HattonTheHammer]

some of you c*nts need to man up

roar one up her best mates shitter, film the whole thing and then send it to her facebook account

[Andre]

hahaha.. We are both still in school together so i think trying to avoid her completely will be difficult. And shes one of the few ppl i can still trust with anything..

You don't have to be hostile towards her, although you may feel like doing that. Just treat her like a casual aquaintance....don't share too much with her, don't show emotion to her, just basically become disinterested in who she is, what she does, how she feels, etc.......she'll either get the message and move on or she could become even more interested in you which could be a problem because she'll only break your heart again...but you could ride that out while it lasts, just don't get booty blind and figure that relationship is something that it isn't

If you two remain "Just friends" resentment will rear it's head...either she'll cockblock you or you'll get jealous of her seeing someone, but either way it's just going to build up to where you two argue all the time and it's no good for anyone.

Women are fickle, they want what they can't have and they don't want what they can have, but they do not NOT want what they can have.....if you can get that. They are basically all bat shit crazy (some more than others) and guys are just along for the ride.

That may be some of the best advice i've ever heard.

I agree. What MAg do you write for Lyle ?

I'd be saying to her, "Now I have had the space to think, Its probably for the best, think maybe we were both in it for all the wrong reasons.

Move on for real bro, once a cheat 99% of the time = always a cheat. And you deserve better.

[El Kabong]

I don't write for any mag, I just have experience in dealing with this kind of thing. I personally have gone through it, I've had friends go through it and I've just seen that getting all sad and depressed over it doesn't accomplish a damn thing, it closes you off to new people, it makes you not fun to be around, and it creates a very bad vibe around you....believe it or not (I know Andre will be on board for this ) people are either givers of energy or takers of energy, people either make you happy when you're around them or make you feel like you've been drained of all happy feelings...and you have to notice what you're putting out there......chicks don't dig "Donny Downer", the dude that's all sullen and sad, unless they are those goth/emo girls and they are usually closet lesbians or just are psychologically and emotionally at a point where you don't want to mess with them.

[ono]

*Opens popcorn and awaits VD's advice*