Getting cheated on!!!

[Lefty]

Well I'm never on here a lot nowadays and one reason is down to girls or a certain girl.

I've posted a few threads about them and my troubles.

I found out my ex I was meeting cheated on me, trouble is she was the first girl I ever fell for and it hurt me. I'm man enough to admit that it took everything from me, I was so down and depressed. And to this day she still means a hell of a lot, she is the one in those past threads I was on about.

I stopped speaking to her for a month, we both then got talking and it took a good few weeks of phone calls before we went out a few nights ago. I met her like half a dozen times in my car. Nowadays she's all I think about.

It's horrible being 19 years old and having a girl in your mind 24/7, its just horrible. My head is totally fucked. I had my Police medical today and she was there, I wake up and shes there, I type this and she's there. Right now im just gonna keep speaking to her. We both ring each other every night and I guess just see where it leads too. As I say I met her just a couple of nights ago. But I dont know what will happen between us, I just hope she feels the same way as I do.

[jabvargas24]

Well I'm never on here a lot nowadays and one reason is down to girls or a certain girl.

I've posted a few threads about them and my troubles.

I found out my ex I was meeting cheated on me, trouble is she was the first girl I ever fell for and it hurt me. I'm man enough to admit that it took everything from me, I was so down and depressed. And to this day she still means a hell of a lot, she is the one in those past threads I was on about.

I stopped speaking to her for a month, we both then got talking and it took a good few weeks of phone calls before we went out a few nights ago. I met her like half a dozen times in my car. Nowadays she's all I think about.

It's horrible being 19 years old and having a girl in your mind 24/7, its just horrible. My head is totally fucked. I had my Police medical today and she was there, I wake up and shes there, I type this and she's there. Right now im just gonna keep speaking to her. We both ring each other every night and I guess just see where it leads too. As I say I met her just a couple of nights ago. But I dont know what will happen between us, I just hope she feels the same way as I do.

I feel you man.. I rly do. Its tough falling in love for the first time and then trying to let go...

[Snakey]

Had this happen to me recently and I just cut ties with her completely BUT i didnt give her the satisfaction of knowing she did any damage to me at all. My response to her was basically "oh ok fair enough well you know the deal, i dont do the whole friends with ex gfs so good luck in the future". She tried to get a reaction out of me and I just gave an unemotional response each time, she tried the whole "i still have feelings for you though" and i was like "yeah but youll get over that soon enough, youll be fine". So by the time I was done it was like I was breaking up with her when she had actually been breaking up with me and she was one of those chicks that doesnt cry that much but without even raising my voice or getting angry I had her in tears just by the fact I acted like I dont give a shit. Her friends told me she was all upset and cut up about it and I just told them that I didnt care coz I dont have feelings for her and that I possiby never did (which also apparently did a shit load of damage when they told her) but meh she cheated on me so she can fuck off. I do have the urge to beat the absolute shit out of the guy she cheated on me with considering I see him around every week and he tries to act like we are good mates (he doesnt know that I know about the whole cheating thing) and he had been braggin to people about it but has never been game to say anything to me.


Short version- Act like you dont give a shit, dont react, cut all ties

[jabvargas24]

Had this happen to me recently and I just cut ties with her completely BUT i didnt give her the satisfaction of knowing she did any damage to me at all. My response to her was basically "oh ok fair enough well you know the deal, i dont do the whole friends with ex gfs so good luck in the future". She tried to get a reaction out of me and I just gave an unemotional response each time, she tried the whole "i still have feelings for you though" and i was like "yeah but youll get over that soon enough, youll be fine". So by the time I was done it was like I was breaking up with her when she had actually been breaking up with me and she was one of those chicks that doesnt cry that much but without even raising my voice or getting angry I had her in tears just by the fact I acted like I dont give a shit. Her friends told me she was all upset and cut up about it and I just told them that I didnt care coz I dont have feelings for her and that I possiby never did (which also apparently did a shit load of damage when they told her) but meh she cheated on me so she can fuck off. I do have the urge to beat the absolute shit out of the guy she cheated on me with considering I see him around every week and he tries to act like we are good mates (he doesnt know that I know about the whole cheating thing) and he had been braggin to people about it but has never been game to say anything to me.


Short version- Act like you dont give a shit, dont react, cut all ties

Haha i like this one.. And i think you shud hit him one good time