Getting cheated on!!!

[Andre]

hahaha.. We are both still in school together so i think trying to avoid her completely will be difficult. And shes one of the few ppl i can still trust with anything..

You don't have to be hostile towards her, although you may feel like doing that. Just treat her like a casual aquaintance....don't share too much with her, don't show emotion to her, just basically become disinterested in who she is, what she does, how she feels, etc.......she'll either get the message and move on or she could become even more interested in you which could be a problem because she'll only break your heart again...but you could ride that out while it lasts, just don't get booty blind and figure that relationship is something that it isn't

If you two remain "Just friends" resentment will rear it's head...either she'll cockblock you or you'll get jealous of her seeing someone, but either way it's just going to build up to where you two argue all the time and it's no good for anyone.

Women are fickle, they want what they can't have and they don't want what they can have, but they do not NOT want what they can have.....if you can get that. They are basically all bat shit crazy (some more than others) and guys are just along for the ride.

That may be some of the best advice i've ever heard.

I agree. What MAg do you write for Lyle ?

I'd be saying to her, "Now I have had the space to think, Its probably for the best, think maybe we were both in it for all the wrong reasons.

Move on for real bro, once a cheat 99% of the time = always a cheat. And you deserve better.

[El Kabong]

I don't write for any mag, I just have experience in dealing with this kind of thing. I personally have gone through it, I've had friends go through it and I've just seen that getting all sad and depressed over it doesn't accomplish a damn thing, it closes you off to new people, it makes you not fun to be around, and it creates a very bad vibe around you....believe it or not (I know Andre will be on board for this ) people are either givers of energy or takers of energy, people either make you happy when you're around them or make you feel like you've been drained of all happy feelings...and you have to notice what you're putting out there......chicks don't dig "Donny Downer", the dude that's all sullen and sad, unless they are those goth/emo girls and they are usually closet lesbians or just are psychologically and emotionally at a point where you don't want to mess with them.

[ono]

*Opens popcorn and awaits VD's advice*