Quote Originally Posted by Munky
Cheers for all your replies guys clicks all round. What i am going to do is take him (i say him because its the 4 year old boy i'm worried about ,not so much the 7 month old girl) to the church service but sit at the back, if things get a bit heavy or if i dont feel its right we are going to nip out and play eye spy or something as memphis suggested. I am not taking him to the crematorium (he is being cremated) as i don't want him to see and feel that sort of emotion just yet. You're right he may well be bored but he is a sensitive little chap and he wont want to see the people he loves upset including his mummy. Have discussed this with my wife and now she also thinks this is for the best.

After that its booze for me at the wake and he gets to play with all his cousins

Once again folks thanks for the replies
Hope it all goes off okay fella (well as well as these things can)