Long Distance Relationships

[killersheep]

I'm really shocked that a smooth talker like hornfinger doesn't have poontang being thrown at him left and right.

LOL how do you know I don't?


Seriously though. It's just the way I feel. I work as a Dj every friday and saturday night. I also work at the same venue as crew for touring bands and pop singers. Musical acts that most of you on here have heard of or own music by. That is what I do for a living when not doing guitar lessons.

When I'm djing I get a veiw of the entire venue cuz I'm up on a high stage. You can see who does and doesn't get the women. And I'm telling you the guys who look the richest are the ones that get the women.

I see how women behave around the rich and famous bands that we have on.

The woman will always gravitate to the man that has most to offer her, money, housing, security.

All women have a price. You can live in as much denile of it as you like but it's a cold hard fact that we all try to ignore.

Even after facts prove you wrong you return to your narrow view of a single venue as a microcosm representation of the entire world.

[Gandalf]

Yep, I don't think groupies or nighclubs are the best way to gauge attitudes and behaviour concerning the opposite sex. Of course groupies and people who hang out in clubs several days a week are more likely to be skanky. Most women are not like that though and I really don't think they 'have a price'.

Hornfinger, you should probably change jobs and see more of the real world. The world you are in is a small snapshot and is that alone.

[Spicoli]

That kinda blows me away HF. So your equating a relationship and a womans company to what 'socially' breaks down in a club scene or venues for popular bands? Where a good portion going in are mingling to hook up in one form or fashion and alcohol tends to flow. Clubs are breeding grounds for status clingers on a whole different level.

[killersheep]

As to the OP, before HF hijacked the thread.

Long distance relationships are really tough. They are possible, but at your age quite frankly it will be extra tough. I wish you happiness in this whole this regardless of how it turns out. Your world is going to change significantly over the next few years.

[Hornfinger]

Yep, I don't think groupies or nighclubs are the best way to gauge attitudes and behaviour concerning the opposite sex. Of course groupies and people who hang out in clubs several days a week are more likely to be skanky. Most women are not like that though and I really don't think they 'have a price'. Hornfinger, you should probably change jobs and see more of the real world. The world you are in is a small snapshot and is that alone.

To 'see the world' you need money and the time and want to do it. I have neither of those things. I enjoy my job it gives me free time to do the things I love doing and it pays very well. I have a lot going on in my life and can not afford to take time out from persuing my goals to visit countries that to be honest, I don't really want to visit. Travelling has never appealed to me.

In my opinion I SEE the real world. Others choose not to because they are afraid of what the reality is.

That kinda blows me away HF. So your equating a relationship and a womans company to what 'socially' breaks down in a club scene or venues for popular bands? Where a good portion going in are mingling to hook up in one form or fashion and alcohol tends to flow. Clubs are breeding grounds for status clingers on a whole different level.

No not nessacarily. Due to the varity of music and acts I see at work I see alot of different parts of society. It's not just one section of society that listens to music, goes to clubs or goes to live events. I personally believe I see a wide cross section of society, from kids who come to see pop acts to your people collecting pensions who come to see their fave band that was popular 40 years ago.

In a building where tickets are bought for recreational purposes is where people behave how they want to behave, rather than the corperate face they put on from 9-5 in their day job.

As to the OP, before HF hijacked the thread.

Long distance relationships are really tough. They are possible, but at your age quite frankly it will be extra tough. I wish you happiness in this whole this regardless of how it turns out. Your world is going to change significantly over the next few years.

Hijacked the thread? behave.

[killersheep]

To 'see the world' you need money and the time and want to do it. I have neither of those things. I enjoy my job it gives me free time to do the things I love doing and it pays very well.

Neato, you're a slave to binary thinking. Of course the whole world is delusional and you're the only one that sees the truth. Enjoy being a John

[Gandalf]

No, I wasn't suggesting moving to other countries or travelling. Just saying that groupies and club addicts are not a reflection of most of the decent, lasting relationships that take place in the real world. Sure there are trashy women and some will surrender themselves to some mid range indie band guitarist and there are ditzy nighclub types who will hook with whoever flashes the credit card, but those are not a reflection of society at large. They are a reflection of that world and that world alone. Of course you are going to get deluded and drunken fools acting like tits. It doesn't make all women prostitutes though, that is extremely misogynistic.

[Hornfinger]

To 'see the world' you need money and the time and want to do it. I have neither of those things. I enjoy my job it gives me free time to do the things I love doing and it pays very well.

Neato, you're a slave to binary thinking. Of course the whole world is delusional and you're the only one that sees the truth. Enjoy being a John

Enjoy your fat ugly wife

Usually you don't settle down and marry a bird that opens her legs for you after a couple of hours talking at a rave. That's a real classy catch you got there! Kinda highlights my point well actually....

[killersheep]

To 'see the world' you need money and the time and want to do it. I have neither of those things. I enjoy my job it gives me free time to do the things I love doing and it pays very well.

Neato, you're a slave to binary thinking. Of course the whole world is delusional and you're the only one that sees the truth. Enjoy being a John

Enjoy your fat ugly wife

Usually you don't settle down and marry a bird that opens her legs for you after a couple of hours talking at a rave. That's a real classy catch you got there! Kinda highlights my point well actually....

I'll ignore the insults as it's clearly a distraction from your completely false premises. And actually doesn't highlight your point at all. Again I truly am sorry you've never had anyone sexually attracted to you.