Long Distance Relationships

[jabvargas24]

My girlfriend is moving to Wisconsin and Im in DC. We are both in love with each other so Im hoping this works out. Anyone ever done long distance? Or advice? Im stressing out over here.

[FTMatty]

My advice is to start bangin' around the minute she leaves.
It saves you regretting the wasted time when the inevitable happens.

[ono]

My advice is to start bangin' around the minute she leaves.
It saves you regretting the wasted time when the inevitable happens.

I pretty much agree with this.

[Andre]

Ive never fancied a phone for sex.

How old are you? and whats keeping you and her apart?

[jabvargas24]

Im 18 and ive been around alot for my age but I have that feeling like this girl could be "the one" And her family is in the military so they move around. Oh and we've been together almost 2 years.

[Andre]

You still at school? You still at home? Can you move with her whats keeping you where you are?

My daughter has been going out with the same bloke since she was 12 she is 20 nearly 21 now, at any stage after they were out of school, if we had moved areas we'd have asked if he wanted to come with us or whether she wanted to stay with him and his folks cause we all realized fast that these two held each other in higher regards than anything else and their happiness outweighs anything we can offer on top.

[Nameless]

Im 18 and ive been around alot for my age but I have that feeling like this girl could be "the one" And her family is in the military so they move around. Oh and we've been together almost 2 years.

I have a lot of difficulties with the concept of "knowing she's the one", we are evolving so fast in an era of stress and where it is very easy to gather informations/temptation from elsewhere (the time where people used to live in the middle of nowhere with 10 hours to do to join the city is revolved) that things change fast. We can never know, ultimately, is she/he is the "one".
My best advice would be: If you really love her, make the compromises necessary in order to make it work, enjoy every moments you can in her company but keep in mind that such relationships are tough and often don't hold in the long run, which means: yeah, do everything you can to make it last, it's possible, difficult but possible. However, don't sacrifice all the rest for a relationship "partially built on a question mark".

[JazMerkin]

My advice is to start bangin' around the minute she leaves.
It saves you regretting the wasted time when the inevitable happens.

I pretty much agree with this.

You're in no position to tell him to start fucking as soon as possible

[Gandalf]

My advice is to start bangin' around the minute she leaves.
It saves you regretting the wasted time when the inevitable happens.

I pretty much agree with this.

You're in no position to tell him to start fucking as soon as possible

Very good point. How can Ono, the king of elongated sexual preludes agree with banging as soon as she leaves? Haha, it would take him a year to make a move!

In my own case, I would do no such thing, but I would try to have more friends and just go to the pub without feeling any pressure.

[Hornfinger]

My girlfriend is moving to Wisconsin and Im in DC. We are both in love with each other so Im hoping this works out. Anyone ever done long distance? Or advice? Im stressing out over here.

Nah they don't work. If I were you I'd get out on the hunt for a new piece of ass pronto. There's literally MILLIONS of tarts out their I'm sure you'll find another one no problem.

Women come and go in life, but you can always find another one.

Hope this helps.

[Howlin Mad Missy]

Bunch of mongs.

IF you both want it to work it can - if you're both committed to each other - you need to schedule proper time for each other otherwise as soon as one of you starts to feel lonely and someone else starts showing you attention.......

[Hornfinger]

Bunch of mongs.

IF you both want it to work it can - if you're both committed to each other - you need to schedule proper time for each other otherwise as soon as one of you starts to feel lonely and someone else starts showing you attention.......

Absolutely, there's always someone else.

[El Kabong]

Bunch of mongs.

IF you both want it to work it can - if you're both committed to each other - you need to schedule proper time for each other otherwise as soon as one of you starts to feel lonely and someone else starts showing you attention.......

Awwww....Missy, you still hold out hope for us. That's sweet

[Howlin Mad Missy]

Bunch of mongs.

IF you both want it to work it can - if you're both committed to each other - you need to schedule proper time for each other otherwise as soon as one of you starts to feel lonely and someone else starts showing you attention.......

Awwww....Missy, you still hold out hope for us. That's sweet

put it this way. I like the romantic idea of love, it's just that every man who's said it to me has ended up behaving like an utter cunt. So in reality that word doesn't hold much sway.

[Ghost]

My girlfriend is moving to Wisconsin and Im in DC. We are both in love with each other so Im hoping this works out. Anyone ever done long distance? Or advice? Im stressing out over here.

You call this long distance?

Me in Miami, Florida, USA - Her in Melbourne, Victoria, Australia.