Long Distance Relationships

[Spicoli]

That kinda blows me away HF. So your equating a relationship and a womans company to what 'socially' breaks down in a club scene or venues for popular bands? Where a good portion going in are mingling to hook up in one form or fashion and alcohol tends to flow. Clubs are breeding grounds for status clingers on a whole different level.

[killersheep]

As to the OP, before HF hijacked the thread.

Long distance relationships are really tough. They are possible, but at your age quite frankly it will be extra tough. I wish you happiness in this whole this regardless of how it turns out. Your world is going to change significantly over the next few years.

[Hornfinger]

Yep, I don't think groupies or nighclubs are the best way to gauge attitudes and behaviour concerning the opposite sex. Of course groupies and people who hang out in clubs several days a week are more likely to be skanky. Most women are not like that though and I really don't think they 'have a price'. Hornfinger, you should probably change jobs and see more of the real world. The world you are in is a small snapshot and is that alone.

To 'see the world' you need money and the time and want to do it. I have neither of those things. I enjoy my job it gives me free time to do the things I love doing and it pays very well. I have a lot going on in my life and can not afford to take time out from persuing my goals to visit countries that to be honest, I don't really want to visit. Travelling has never appealed to me.

In my opinion I SEE the real world. Others choose not to because they are afraid of what the reality is.

That kinda blows me away HF. So your equating a relationship and a womans company to what 'socially' breaks down in a club scene or venues for popular bands? Where a good portion going in are mingling to hook up in one form or fashion and alcohol tends to flow. Clubs are breeding grounds for status clingers on a whole different level.

No not nessacarily. Due to the varity of music and acts I see at work I see alot of different parts of society. It's not just one section of society that listens to music, goes to clubs or goes to live events. I personally believe I see a wide cross section of society, from kids who come to see pop acts to your people collecting pensions who come to see their fave band that was popular 40 years ago.

In a building where tickets are bought for recreational purposes is where people behave how they want to behave, rather than the corperate face they put on from 9-5 in their day job.

As to the OP, before HF hijacked the thread.

Long distance relationships are really tough. They are possible, but at your age quite frankly it will be extra tough. I wish you happiness in this whole this regardless of how it turns out. Your world is going to change significantly over the next few years.

Hijacked the thread? behave.

[killersheep]

To 'see the world' you need money and the time and want to do it. I have neither of those things. I enjoy my job it gives me free time to do the things I love doing and it pays very well.

Neato, you're a slave to binary thinking. Of course the whole world is delusional and you're the only one that sees the truth. Enjoy being a John

[Gandalf]

No, I wasn't suggesting moving to other countries or travelling. Just saying that groupies and club addicts are not a reflection of most of the decent, lasting relationships that take place in the real world. Sure there are trashy women and some will surrender themselves to some mid range indie band guitarist and there are ditzy nighclub types who will hook with whoever flashes the credit card, but those are not a reflection of society at large. They are a reflection of that world and that world alone. Of course you are going to get deluded and drunken fools acting like tits. It doesn't make all women prostitutes though, that is extremely misogynistic.

[Hornfinger]

To 'see the world' you need money and the time and want to do it. I have neither of those things. I enjoy my job it gives me free time to do the things I love doing and it pays very well.

Neato, you're a slave to binary thinking. Of course the whole world is delusional and you're the only one that sees the truth. Enjoy being a John

Enjoy your fat ugly wife

Usually you don't settle down and marry a bird that opens her legs for you after a couple of hours talking at a rave. That's a real classy catch you got there! Kinda highlights my point well actually....

[killersheep]

To 'see the world' you need money and the time and want to do it. I have neither of those things. I enjoy my job it gives me free time to do the things I love doing and it pays very well.

Neato, you're a slave to binary thinking. Of course the whole world is delusional and you're the only one that sees the truth. Enjoy being a John

Enjoy your fat ugly wife

Usually you don't settle down and marry a bird that opens her legs for you after a couple of hours talking at a rave. That's a real classy catch you got there! Kinda highlights my point well actually....

I'll ignore the insults as it's clearly a distraction from your completely false premises. And actually doesn't highlight your point at all. Again I truly am sorry you've never had anyone sexually attracted to you.

[Hornfinger]

All I did was voice what you said previously about how you met your wife.

There's no shame in it, I've fucked women like that in the past. I just never felt the urge to want to marry one of those type of girls.

[Howlin Mad Missy]

To 'see the world' you need money and the time and want to do it. I have neither of those things. I enjoy my job it gives me free time to do the things I love doing and it pays very well.

Neato, you're a slave to binary thinking. Of course the whole world is delusional and you're the only one that sees the truth. Enjoy being a John

Enjoy your fat ugly wife

Usually you don't settle down and marry a bird that opens her legs for you after a couple of hours talking at a rave. That's a real classy catch you got there! Kinda highlights my point well actually....

I'll ignore the insults as it's clearly a distraction from your completely false premises. And actually doesn't highlight your point at all. Again I truly am sorry you've never had anyone sexually attracted to you.

I've only ever slept with guys I've been attracted to - the end. If they ever suggested I'd been bought they'd have gotten smacked in the face.

I kinda like my mums response to an argument she and my dad had when they were going out. He made some comment about buying the outfit she was wearing so she took it off, gave it him back and walked off home in her underwear.