"If there's a better chin in the world than Pryor's, it has to be on Mount Rushmore." -Pat Putnam.
I can't be bothered to reply to some people individually so I'l post it here.
You men must really hate women? No sooner as the rumours come out you start saying some women are mental & deserve to get hit...no thought that he may have been a nutter, no, it was all down to her.
For gods sake, if its true that he used to knock her about it's worse because he's a boxer, you're trained to hurt people and you're trained to be control of that aggression.
I assume we can agree that hitting anyone (outside of boxing, mma, etc) is generally considered not the thing to do?
If you're are saying it's ok to punch a woman in the face - which some of you are - is it ok to punch a kid in the face?
Most men are stronger than most women. More men hit women than women hit men. Most women are murdered by boyfriends and ex's. Those are facts.
I know one women whose husband broke her nose by bashing her face on the floor. I know someone who kicked his pregnant girlfriend about - but that was ok because kicking wasn't 'hitting'.
Women can of course be violent towards men? People relationships can be strange but if anyone starts to see signs of someone being jealous/controlling, watch your step because that added to drink can lead to a world of trouble.
If she had suffered years of abuse I can understand how she could snap and react like that.
It's never okay to hit a woman, but likewise it's never okay to hit a man either. We don't know the ins and outs of Gattis relationship with his wife, but it would seem that it was volatile.
If he did indeed hit her then it is her responsibility to get out of the relationship. To turn around and kill him like that is just plain wrong though. That is if what we are hearing does indeed turn out to be true.
There is no excuse for violence. If she was enduring his abuse for some time then bigger fool her for not getting out of it and using legal means to do so.
There are NO excuses for this kind of behaviour.
premeditation is something I have issues with. You're not dealing with someone in a 'normal' state of mind.
There have been many cases of abuse where the woman has struck back several hours after an episode of violence & that's what people have trouble understanding, if they were in the middle of a row, he hit her and she picked up a knife and stabbed him people would say ok it was wrong but y'know in the heat of the moment/she was defending herself....
People aren't thinking straight lots of people are mentally in something similar to shock. Many don't remember what they thought, what they did or even why they did it.
...& it continues, it was her fault she got hit she should have left.
Thankfully many of you don't understand because you've not had to deal with domestic violence.
If Gatti did abuse her, of course that is wrong, but it still doesn't justify premeditated murder.
I think the planning is a huge part of the thought process my friend years ago suffered violent abuse for 9 years 3 kids later, many hospital stays and advise to leave him from her friends, she thought the only way out was for her to kill him she never did but was always planning to on a daily basis.
In this case we dont know how she or for that matter he suffered as some women are more violent then men i guess it will all come out when it goes to trial.
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