How good are you at the p/up game?!

[Dizaster]

Alright guys, lets be f'n honest here.. We don't need this to become a pissing contest. We all know each other here and their isn't anyone to impress.

How good are you at picking up ladies....

Lets keep it simple with a rating 1 to 10.... If you want to comment you can, but a simple 1 to 10 will suffice.

10 being this - You walk into a very happening club, you pick out THE 5 best girls in the club. The 11 out of 10 girls. And over the course of the night you pick up everyone one of them. 5 from 5. You get numbers, you get kisses, you get these girls attracted to you, they're comfortable with you, and THEY are seducing YOU.

1 being this - You walk into the club, you spot 1 of the hottest girls in the club, she just HAPPENS to look your way, you shit yourself, you don't want to be caught staring so you look down at your feet, feel for your wallet in your pocket,, then go and get as drunk as you posssssibly can, so maybe sometime during the night, if you get wasted enough, you'll eventually have the courage to walk up and say hello to another totally drunk 4 out of 10 girl and HOPE she is horny and wants to just take you home without any effort on your part. BUT, as always, you don't talk to any girls, and you go home alone and beat off to the thoughts of some of the skantly cad babes that you'd oggled over all night.

And lets say 5 being - You think your pretty good, you can have conversations during the night out. You can talk to some okay girls. You can sometimes get the odd girl to like you. You've probably had a 1 night stand at one stage. But, if you go up and say hi to an 11 girl, you'll still get shot down every time. (they are reallllly tough b!tches to crack, not many guys can)

Now lets keep this honest.. If your going to say your 10 out of 10, your gonna have to f'n sell us on that one! And some of us will want some god damn tips while your at it!

If your a 1, who give's a sh!t.... 98% of guys are 1 out of 10. Women can really freak people out.

Lets make this a good honest discussion.

OH, and lets get it straight now, just cos your a 1 out of 10 with women, doesn't mean you can't put 99 out of 100 guys on the canvas in the ring....

Boxing and women are 2 TOTALLY different animals! =)

I'd sooner step in the ring risking brain damage most days than face approaching a stunning women..

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Anyway i'll start, i'm a 2... No sh!t... I'm working on it. But not getting anywhere so far. and i'm not going to give my whole damn story.. A few years ago I may have been a 3 or maybe 4... But I'll be honest, I sh!t myself thinking about approaching women.. It SUX!!!! It's a HUGE hole in my life!! But i'm working on it and I damn well intend on getting freakin good at it! Mark my words


Now get writing!

[skel1983]

Thanks for being honest dude.

To be honest it's been that long since i went looking for skirt, but say five years ago id say i was 7/10, good but improvements could be made, hense why im with the women im with now . Only joking!!

How old are you?

[Dizaster]

I'm 25, so I better get my a** moving right?

To be fair, I had a girlfriend from 16-18. I had a drug problem and another girlfriend from 18-22. I was ONLY social for a year but managed to get to a 4.. yay for me Then got another girlfriend... and i've since dropped too a 2... all my girlfriends have been verrry decent though.
So basically my main problem is I havn't had a chance to practice my game to much, and certainly wasn't born with the social tools, so I need to practice.
If i'm no better at 30, i'm giving up and buying one of those "real dolls" and f'king it till it's pu$$y falls off.

no seriously that was a joke. I'm not stressed or desperate.. I'm starting to go out again now on weekends and have a few female friends to go along with some weekends which makes life much easier so i'm not stressed.. It'll all come together soon.. I know i've got the skills somewhere. I just get too freakin nervous...
anyway, I'm looking forward to hearing everyone elses stories ............

[Wadeb_21]

Not to sound cocky or full of myself but when it comes to picking up the ladies I wuold have to say I'm pretty damn smooth. I would have to say I'm about a 8 or 9. Vary rarely do I ever get intimidated by a female. Now just because I'm good at picking up ladies doesn't mean I'm good at holding onto them and by that I mean I really haven't ever been in a long relationship, and the one I was in I ended up effing that up with my own damn stupidity. I think I have a curse when it comes to relationships I"ll probably end up 70 or 80 and single still trying to spit game lol.

[donnydarkoIRL]

I'm only a young fella and now i'm attached, but pretty much bein a boxer and alri-lookin i gotta say i'd be a nine.
And the trick I think is jus to act secure in urself and let the girls no that ur jus not ur typical booze bag out on the pull. I'm livin proof, it does not matter what u look like!

[Punisher136]

I never attract the girls that are worth attracting and the ones i do.....

The last nut i attracted said she was drawn to me because (and i quote) "There's something mysterious about me" . All she did was talk about how many stalkers she has. I'm not an insecure guy but my imagination reads into things a lot further than most. For instance i was picturing if i would for some reason stay with her from several years, and one of her "stalkers" would end up assassinating me after i won a title match or something. Trust me when i find that picture i've been looking for of me (the look basically says "I hate you. Don't ask me what time it is") it might put a few things into perspective. Thats the look i have on my face just about all day everyday. Nothing mysterious about that, i'm just an angry person.

So overall i'm a 1 as far as anything that counts but I'm a 10 when it comes to attracting the nutjobs out there.

[ICB]

I have been with a girl for ages now so i don't go picking up girls im happy with my girl.

[Kev]

Ha great topic!

For myself I vary depending on how much confidence I have at the time I think.

I can go as high as 5 or 6 on a good night, quite often pulled 3 or 4 lasses in one night although to be fair they ain't elite.

Sometimes though I barely register on your scale and would probably be a minus 5.

My worst ever moment came when I attempted to chat up this cute girl with the terrible, 'Oh I'm sorry I mistook you for someone else' cheese line. Anyways she wasn't buying it and just kind of looked at me like I was Ian Huntley or something. Nonetheless I tried to continue to engage her in conversation.....

Unfortunately when I'm nervous I tend to do stupid things and at this particular time as I attempted to take a drink out of my pint glass it slipped out of my fingers and dropped on her foot, soaking her but thankfully not shattering the glass and permantly maiming her!

I was so embarrassed I couldn't speak and just kind of stared at her with a gormless look. She and her friends just walked off in disgust and I got a taxi home quickly after.

[CutMeMick]

Whoa!!
Well I've been with my girl for a while now, soooo it's been a while since I've actually picked up on a girl and wen't on with it. Every now and then when I go out alone I'll pick up on girl just to see if I still got it. Truth be told I still do. I'm like Wadeb21 never had a problem picking up on girls don't get intimidated by them....
Alright check this is how much I didn't give fuck at one point.....
When I was 17 I wen't to audition for a Colgate commerical at the Hilton in Universal Studios I get there and I saw that there was some type of small gathering at one of the corners fo the hotel.... I walked away and went on to do my audition (I didn't get it ) so as I was walking out of the room where I had audition curiosity got the best of me and I decided to walk towards the gathering by this time there was less people so it would be easier for me to have a look at what the deal was... As I get closer I notice theres a black girl sitting down and she seems to be getting all the attention. When I get closer I saw her and I was like whoa!! then I looked again and it was Tatyana Ali (Fresh Prince of Bel Air) she noticed me as I walked up and smilied being the cocky cunt that I was then I took this smile as in a 'I wanna know you' smile.... I walked off to the side and sat down in a near by sofa trying to look as if I was waiting for someone... I opened up by back pack and pulled out a magazine and sat there about 10 min. later the crowd was gone by now... I kept trying not to look over there but it was imposible the thing was that I was catching her looking at me so that would make me look at her. Finally I filled myself with courage and walked up to her she was with 3 girfriends there, I said hello and introduced myself and I told myself I would pretend not to know who she was so we started talking for a few minutes and then one of her friends tells me what I was doing on that weekend I said I didn't have any plans yet and I quickly jumped the gun and asked Tatyana for her number she opened her purse and grabbed a pen I looked for a paper in my backpack got one out and she gave me her number, we talked some more and I had to get going. I said bye and that was that that weekend I called her Friday afternoon and she wasn't in town so that was that, then I called her the following weekend and se he was still out of the state after the 3rd attempt I just threw the number away and tried to forget all about it....

It's not like I really wanted to go out with her...

[Kev]

Whoa!!
Well I've been with my girl for a while now, soooo it's been a while since I've actually picked up on a girl and wen't on with it. Every now and then when I go out alone I'll pick up on girl just to see if I still got it. Truth be told I still do. I'm like Wadeb21 never had a problem picking up on girls don't get intimidated by them....
Alright check this is how much I didn't give F*** at one point.....
When I was 17 I wen't to audition for a Colgate commerical at the Hilton in Universal Studios I get there and I saw that there was some type of small gathering at one of the corners fo the hotel.... I walked away and went on to do my audition (I didn't get it ) so as I was walking out of the room where I had audition curiosity got the best of me and I decided to walk towards the gathering by this time there was less people so it would be easier for me to have a look at what the deal was... As I get closer I notice theres a black girl sitting down and she seems to be getting all the attention. When I get closer I saw her and I was like whoa!! then I looked again and it was Tatyana Ali (Fresh Prince of Bel Air) she noticed me as I walked up and smilied being the cocky c*** that I was then I took this smile as in a 'I wanna know you' smile.... I walked off to the side and sat down in a near by sofa trying to look as if I was waiting for someone... I opened up by back pack and pulled out a magazine and sat there about 10 min. later the crowd was gone by now... I kept trying not to look over there but it was imposible the thing was that I was catching her looking at me so that would make me look at her. Finally I filled myself with courage and walked up to her she was with 3 girfriends there, I said hello and introduced myself and I told myself I would pretend not to know who she was so we started talking for a few minutes and then one of her friends tells me what I was doing on that weekend I said I didn't have any plans yet and I quickly jumped the gun and asked Tatyana for her number she opened her purse and grabbed a pen I looked for a paper in my backpack got one out and she gave me her number, we talked some more and I had to get going. I said bye and that was that that weekend I called her Friday afternoon and she wasn't in town so that was that, then I called her the following weekend and se he was still out of the state after the 3rd attempt I just threw the number away and tried to forget all about it....

Ah mate Tatanya Ali was sweet made, seriously hot!

What I wanna know though is did you get a picture of her and you together and were you wearing shades at the time?

[Tito BHB]

Im gona go for about a five/six

Im not the prettiest of bitches but im pretty confident when it comes to chit chat..

Cant complain

[CutMeMick]

Whoa!!
Well I've been with my girl for a while now, soooo it's been a while since I've actually picked up on a girl and wen't on with it. Every now and then when I go out alone I'll pick up on girl just to see if I still got it. Truth be told I still do. I'm like Wadeb21 never had a problem picking up on girls don't get intimidated by them....
Alright check this is how much I didn't give F*** at one point.....
When I was 17 I wen't to audition for a Colgate commerical at the Hilton in Universal Studios I get there and I saw that there was some type of small gathering at one of the corners fo the hotel.... I walked away and went on to do my audition (I didn't get it ) so as I was walking out of the room where I had audition curiosity got the best of me and I decided to walk towards the gathering by this time there was less people so it would be easier for me to have a look at what the deal was... As I get closer I notice theres a black girl sitting down and she seems to be getting all the attention. When I get closer I saw her and I was like whoa!! then I looked again and it was Tatyana Ali (Fresh Prince of Bel Air) she noticed me as I walked up and smilied being the cocky c*** that I was then I took this smile as in a 'I wanna know you' smile.... I walked off to the side and sat down in a near by sofa trying to look as if I was waiting for someone... I opened up by back pack and pulled out a magazine and sat there about 10 min. later the crowd was gone by now... I kept trying not to look over there but it was imposible the thing was that I was catching her looking at me so that would make me look at her. Finally I filled myself with courage and walked up to her she was with 3 girfriends there, I said hello and introduced myself and I told myself I would pretend not to know who she was so we started talking for a few minutes and then one of her friends tells me what I was doing on that weekend I said I didn't have any plans yet and I quickly jumped the gun and asked Tatyana for her number she opened her purse and grabbed a pen I looked for a paper in my backpack got one out and she gave me her number, we talked some more and I had to get going. I said bye and that was that that weekend I called her Friday afternoon and she wasn't in town so that was that, then I called her the following weekend and se he was still out of the state after the 3rd attempt I just threw the number away and tried to forget all about it....

Ah mate Tatanya Ali was sweet made, seriously hot!

What I wanna know though is did you get a picture of her and you together and were you wearing shades at the time?

No, no picture I didn't even own a camera then
But I was wearing my shades...

[Kev]

Whoa!!
Well I've been with my girl for a while now, soooo it's been a while since I've actually picked up on a girl and wen't on with it. Every now and then when I go out alone I'll pick up on girl just to see if I still got it. Truth be told I still do. I'm like Wadeb21 never had a problem picking up on girls don't get intimidated by them....
Alright check this is how much I didn't give F*** at one point.....
When I was 17 I wen't to audition for a Colgate commerical at the Hilton in Universal Studios I get there and I saw that there was some type of small gathering at one of the corners fo the hotel.... I walked away and went on to do my audition (I didn't get it ) so as I was walking out of the room where I had audition curiosity got the best of me and I decided to walk towards the gathering by this time there was less people so it would be easier for me to have a look at what the deal was... As I get closer I notice theres a black girl sitting down and she seems to be getting all the attention. When I get closer I saw her and I was like whoa!! then I looked again and it was Tatyana Ali (Fresh Prince of Bel Air) she noticed me as I walked up and smilied being the cocky c*** that I was then I took this smile as in a 'I wanna know you' smile.... I walked off to the side and sat down in a near by sofa trying to look as if I was waiting for someone... I opened up by back pack and pulled out a magazine and sat there about 10 min. later the crowd was gone by now... I kept trying not to look over there but it was imposible the thing was that I was catching her looking at me so that would make me look at her. Finally I filled myself with courage and walked up to her she was with 3 girfriends there, I said hello and introduced myself and I told myself I would pretend not to know who she was so we started talking for a few minutes and then one of her friends tells me what I was doing on that weekend I said I didn't have any plans yet and I quickly jumped the gun and asked Tatyana for her number she opened her purse and grabbed a pen I looked for a paper in my backpack got one out and she gave me her number, we talked some more and I had to get going. I said bye and that was that that weekend I called her Friday afternoon and she wasn't in town so that was that, then I called her the following weekend and se he was still out of the state after the 3rd attempt I just threw the number away and tried to forget all about it....

Ah mate Tatanya Ali was sweet made, seriously hot!

What I wanna know though is did you get a picture of her and you together and were you wearing shades at the time?

No, no picture I didn't even own a camera then
But I was wearing my shades...

lol I bet you even had your trademark beard back when you was 12 as well

[Jimanuel Boogustus]

Im a 5.5

[CutMeMick]

Whoa!!
Well I've been with my girl for a while now, soooo it's been a while since I've actually picked up on a girl and wen't on with it. Every now and then when I go out alone I'll pick up on girl just to see if I still got it. Truth be told I still do. I'm like Wadeb21 never had a problem picking up on girls don't get intimidated by them....
Alright check this is how much I didn't give F*** at one point.....
When I was 17 I wen't to audition for a Colgate commerical at the Hilton in Universal Studios I get there and I saw that there was some type of small gathering at one of the corners fo the hotel.... I walked away and went on to do my audition (I didn't get it ) so as I was walking out of the room where I had audition curiosity got the best of me and I decided to walk towards the gathering by this time there was less people so it would be easier for me to have a look at what the deal was... As I get closer I notice theres a black girl sitting down and she seems to be getting all the attention. When I get closer I saw her and I was like whoa!! then I looked again and it was Tatyana Ali (Fresh Prince of Bel Air) she noticed me as I walked up and smilied being the cocky c*** that I was then I took this smile as in a 'I wanna know you' smile.... I walked off to the side and sat down in a near by sofa trying to look as if I was waiting for someone... I opened up by back pack and pulled out a magazine and sat there about 10 min. later the crowd was gone by now... I kept trying not to look over there but it was imposible the thing was that I was catching her looking at me so that would make me look at her. Finally I filled myself with courage and walked up to her she was with 3 girfriends there, I said hello and introduced myself and I told myself I would pretend not to know who she was so we started talking for a few minutes and then one of her friends tells me what I was doing on that weekend I said I didn't have any plans yet and I quickly jumped the gun and asked Tatyana for her number she opened her purse and grabbed a pen I looked for a paper in my backpack got one out and she gave me her number, we talked some more and I had to get going. I said bye and that was that that weekend I called her Friday afternoon and she wasn't in town so that was that, then I called her the following weekend and se he was still out of the state after the 3rd attempt I just threw the number away and tried to forget all about it....

Ah mate Tatanya Ali was sweet made, seriously hot!

What I wanna know though is did you get a picture of her and you together and were you wearing shades at the time?

No, no picture I didn't even own a camera then
But I was wearing my shades...

lol I bet you even had your trademark beard back when you was 12 as well

No, I didn't have my beard back then....
I remember I started shaving since I was 14 trying to grow facial hair and nothing.... Hair was growing everywhere I DIDN'T want it to grow and wasn't growing on my face where I did want hair....
I didn't start growing facial hair till I was like 22....