THANKS Mick...................;D;D;D
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Congrats, Goodluck, and have dozens of kids! ;D
Well im engaged but i feel like im married in a way because i've known my girl for years, but congrats man your girl should be like your best friend. Be nice and caring to her but not too much because otherwise she will think your doormat, don't be too nasty or uncaring otherwise she will think your an asshole and she will leave you, basically you need to be round about in the middle of those 2 ;)
But i hope it works out bro good luck.
Congrats man, This is the same advice I give everyone that's getting married.
1) Act like you are losing your hearing.
2) Act like you are losing your memory.
I've been happily married for 5 and a half years now.
Also be completely up front about all finances, you'd be surprised how much money can screw up a good time.
I got no marriage advice. I'm 14 yrs old. I have a girlfriend, first one I've ever had and we get a long good. So yea, I'm a total rookie, but this much I know for sure...Don't ever flirt with her friends, and don't EVER, I mean NEVER put your weener where it don't belong.
Hope that helps!
Good luck and go make some babies!!!!
:)
Man I hear a lot of people here advising you to have kids.
Marriage in my opinion doesn't mean that you have to have kids.
I'd chill with that for a while, enjoy each other and adjust to living situations/financial arrangements/work or extra curricular schedules etc.
Keep a clear mind. Don't let stress build ups as undoubtedly, you'll end up taking it out on the person closest to you (and vice versa.)
But really, all I can offer is my best wishes. I'm sure you know exactly what you want since you married the lady in the first place.
If you think you want kids, wait a REALLY long time first. Make sure you get everything out of your system you need to get out. My wife and I were married for 10 years before we had our daughter. For the longest time I wasn't interested in having kids- I wanted to go when I wanted to go and do what I wanted to do and a kid sidelines all that. Just think about the mundane things that would totally change. Can't go to the movies- you got the baby. Can't just drop everything and do anything spur of the moment, IF the baby can come, you have to pack a bag and make sure the baby has proper clothes to wear. It's perfectly normal for you to want to be 'selfish' right now. Make sure you enjoy that before you decide to have a kid.
Best of luck bud....best wishes to you and the Ms's....Hope she at least lets you look at them in the jar of formaldehyde once in a while...:-X...jk;D...congrats!