What do you make of this girl????

[DAVIDTUA]

Several Months ago I met this SMOKING HOT girl. She actually approached me at this place called Yardhouse. For those of you who do not know Yardhouse is an upscale brewery, with good food and supposedly the most choices of beers in the world. She walked up to me and just was completely forward in her interests in me. (Yeah i know, never happens, wish it happen to more to us fellas huh?) I played it off cool kept my poker face on the whole time even tho deep down inside I was like WOW this girl is smokin HOT! Anyway shes been emailing/texting/calling ever since. but whenver we plan to hook up she like goes MIA? So i literally go thru stages where I get really confused/pissed and say F her for playing all these games. But next thing you know I get a new text/email out of the blue from her saying oh we should hook up blah blah?

WTF?

Basically in short if she was not so smoking HOT I would normally logically say F this broad she aint worth it, but a part of me is like dude do whatever it takes to close this?

but i guess my question is.... WHY does she so interest and then right before we are suppose to go out on a date she goes MIA? and then keeps poppin back into the picture? I am completely stunned?

my female friends say:
1)she got scared and pussied out at the last second cause shes intimidated by me?
2)she has a boyfriend and only textes/emails/calls me when things dont work out or on the decline?
3) she has so many dudes on her she just cant seem to get away from them enough to hook up with me?

what do you guys think? i can not even put my finger on it(no pun intended LOL)

[donnydarkoIRL]

It is a possibilty she's got a boyfriend , If so back away. It's not right and you're putting yourself at risk.
I know if ever found out I was being two timed, I would quite literally lose the plot. You don't need a beating over some girl.

On the other hand the girl could have confidence issues and needs to be nurtured more., patience mifght be th4e best solution...How long have you been texting/emailing?

[BIG H]

She's mugging you off mate. If she is playing games already, you are going to be in for a sh1t time. Bin it off

[DAVIDTUA]

thanks for the response buddy. REP PTS coming your way!


ummm well she first came up to me at the yardhouse like SEVERAL months back and it like turned into an email/texting thing more than anything. its been so long that i forget about her even existing then she like textes me a pic of her like in a tube top or bikini(and she had gigantic hooters by the way LOL) and im all like DAMN now why you gotta go and do that love huh? and it gets me all excited and wanting her all over again.

i dont understand how she has confidence issues when shes the one who came up to me and basically asked me out? LOL. does her confidence go from sky high to so low that she just goes MIA for like 2-3months in between

i dont know buddy i think i could just say F it and not even bother, but those text pictures ARE KILLING ME! ARRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGH!

[DAVIDTUA]

hitmandonny 4pts for the wise words buddy thanks!

[donnydarkoIRL]

Hey man don't be surprised...
Sometimes people who appear confident are actually the least.
She might be able to show herself off from a distance, but maybe she can't present herself in front of you after first contact.

On the other hand she may just be flirtatious and using you for a bit of fun. If you're getting photos and a bit of fun out of it, you're not harming anyone, enjoy it I say. Some might view you as a lucky fella!

If you still want to meet up, maybe feign disinterest and if she craves your attention, say "hey what are you doing such and such a time."
If she's not available, then she's just playing, otherwise the lack of attention will make her want to meet you.

[BIG H]

Mate, I can relate and if I was in your position it would be really hard to walk away, but from experience a head fukk is a heads fukk and if she is doing this now imagine what it would be like if you got into a relationship and you never knew where you stand etc - would be a nightmare. If it was me I would probably do everything in my power to bang her and see if she's worth the hassle - problem there is she may be fukk of the century and then you're even more screwed

Walk away mate

[DAVIDTUA]

Mate, I can relate and if I was in your position it would be really hard to walk away, but from experience a head fukk is a heads fukk and if she is doing this now imagine what it would be like if you got into a relationship and you never knew where you stand etc - would be a nightmare. If it was me I would probably do everything in my power to bang her and see if she's worth the hassle - problem there is she may be fukk of the century and then you're even more screwed

Walk away mate

buddy i wish i could give you 40pts for your what you just replied to me with, but sorry i can only give you 4 pts for now k?

can you elaborate on how you can relate to me? did u have a similiar situation and please tell me u handled it wisely and have a much better ending than the one i feel im going to end up with!

YES buddy, with her body, those hips, those lips, those legs, those thighs, those huge hooters, that bodacious booty, GOD DAMN im so fucked. i really cant not even see how this could be anything short from the lay of the millenium!

[donnydarkoIRL]

hold on I remeber this story!!!!

There was this guy in my college and he was really into this girl. She was even more into him.
Everyone was speculating when they'd get together, cos they were obviously boiling for each other.

There was a group project and they were put together and I think that inflamed the situation....


Oh wait....I better not finish the story

[BIG H]

Mate, I can relate and if I was in your position it would be really hard to walk away, but from experience a head fukk is a heads fukk and if she is doing this now imagine what it would be like if you got into a relationship and you never knew where you stand etc - would be a nightmare. If it was me I would probably do everything in my power to bang her and see if she's worth the hassle - problem there is she may be fukk of the century and then you're even more screwed

Walk away mate

can you elaborate on how you can relate to me? did u have a similiar situation and please tell me u handled it wisely and have a much better ending than the one i feel im going to end up with!

I've had quite a few situations where woman have come on really strong and then gone all aloof and then as soon as I have back off and not shown much interested, the texts, phonecalls, pictures etc all start again. So I have got all emotionally involved again and sure enough she backs away again, starts waiting a whole day to reply to texts etc. It is just a viscious circle. If she wants to be with you she would not be playin any games, she would just go for it, it's a control thing, if you show no interest she will probably be all over you. I just think it's gonna end in hurt (yours) coz the mind games have started already and you aint even in a relationship yet.

[RP33]

thanks for the response buddy. REP PTS coming your way!


ummm well she first came up to me at the yardhouse like SEVERAL months back and it like turned into an email/texting thing more than anything. its been so long that i forget about her even existing then she like textes me a pic of her like in a tube top or bikini(and she had gigantic hooters by the way LOL) and im all like DAMN now why you gotta go and do that love huh? and it gets me all excited and wanting her all over again.

i dont understand how she has confidence issues when shes the one who came up to me and basically asked me out? LOL. does her confidence go from sky high to so low that she just goes MIA for like 2-3months in between

i dont know buddy i think i could just say F it and not even bother, but those text pictures ARE KILLING ME! ARRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGH!

this situation is pretty simple.. first off how old are you? cause that plays a major role.. i'd say if the girl is over 21 then she's prob just juggling guys.. if a girl is attractive and isn't the type to be in a relationship and get attached then this is how they act.. If they see a guy who they think is attractive, then they approach them, and add them to the list.. whether it be something that makes her feel more self-esteem because guys are talking to her or what, it doesn't matter..

point is, you said it in your first post.. SHE approached YOU, which isn't something that happens normally in general.. so imagine how many guys she's approached in the past.. that's the key.. chances are she does this all the time..

throw her the bone and then forget about her.. who doesn't wanna sleep with a hot chick?

anyway.. you should post those tube top pictures, i think that would help us all decide what you should do

[DAVIDTUA]

thanks for the response buddy. REP PTS coming your way!


ummm well she first came up to me at the yardhouse like SEVERAL months back and it like turned into an email/texting thing more than anything. its been so long that i forget about her even existing then she like textes me a pic of her like in a tube top or bikini(and she had gigantic hooters by the way LOL) and im all like DAMN now why you gotta go and do that love huh? and it gets me all excited and wanting her all over again.

i dont understand how she has confidence issues when shes the one who came up to me and basically asked me out? LOL. does her confidence go from sky high to so low that she just goes MIA for like 2-3months in between

i dont know buddy i think i could just say F it and not even bother, but those text pictures ARE KILLING ME! ARRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGH!

this situation is pretty simple.. first off how old are you? cause that plays a major role.. i'd say if the girl is over 21 then she's prob just juggling guys.. if a girl is attractive and isn't the type to be in a relationship and get attached then this is how they act.. If they see a guy who they think is attractive, then they approach them, and add them to the list.. whether it be something that makes her feel more self-esteem because guys are talking to her or what, it doesn't matter..

point is, you said it in your first post.. SHE approached YOU, which isn't something that happens normally in general.. so imagine how many guys she's approached in the past.. that's the key.. chances are she does this all the time..

throw her the bone and then forget about her.. who doesn't wanna sleep with a hot chick?

anyway.. you should post those tube top pictures, i think that would help us all decide what you should do

+5 rep points buddy thanks!
to answer ya question im now fuckin 30yrs old ARGGGGH! im so sick of playing these girl games, but again is she wasnt so SMOKIN then normally id say F it, F her. she obviously is atleast 21 because u have to be 21 to enter this place or atleast the bar section of the place at night and i think she was drinking that night?

some other things that make matters worse/more confusing. dude she was like not letting me go or even giving me the chance to even mingle. she grabbed my hand and held my hand the whole night and took me every where she walked LOL. WTF is up with that?

also i heard from various studs that girls like a guy who wears alot of accessories meaning its better to wear: hats, sunglasses, neclaces etc.

so that night i was wearing all of the above and she was like hey can i try your hat and sunglasses on? i was like sure so soon as she put them on i was like: WHOA damn you look sexy babe! the hat and glasses look sexy on you. she then got really defensive and said are u making fun of me? i was like WTF no u look really good? so i even took a pic of her from her digital camera just so she could see what she looked like in them. to calm her/ease her that i wasnt making fun of her?

the texting/flirting started that same very night for after the brewery we kept texting each other.

i was like hey where u at? u busy?

she was like no im not, why whats up?(this was like 4AM)

damn i think i F'd it from there i should of just tried to close the deal right then and there. instead i wanted to appear to be the nice swell gentleman type, more so cause i knew she might have still been hanging with the other hottie. (this point of time i didnt know which of the two i wanted to pursue for sure?)

[Douglas]

Several Months ago I met this SMOKING HOT girl. She actually approached me at this place called Yardhouse. For those of you who do not know Yardhouse is an upscale brewery, with good food and supposedly the most choices of beers in the world. She walked up to me and just was completely forward in her interests in me. (Yeah i know, never happens, wish it happen to more to us fellas huh?) I played it off cool kept my poker face on the whole time even tho deep down inside I was like WOW this girl is smokin HOT! Anyway shes been emailing/texting/calling ever since. but whenver we plan to hook up she like goes MIA? So i literally go thru stages where I get really confused/pissed and say F her for playing all these games. But next thing you know I get a new text/email out of the blue from her saying oh we should hook up blah blah?

WTF?



Basically in short if she was not so smoking HOT I would normally logically say F this broad she aint worth it, but a part of me is like dude do whatever it takes to close this?

but i guess my question is.... WHY does she so interest and then right before we are suppose to go out on a date she goes MIA? and then keeps poppin back into the picture? I am completely stunned?

my female friends say:
1)she got scared and pussied out at the last second cause shes intimidated by me?
2)she has a boyfriend and only textes/emails/calls me when things dont work out or on the decline?
3) she has so many dudes on her she just cant seem to get away from them enough to hook up with me?

what do you guys think? i can not even put my finger on it(no pun intended LOL)

You really need to find out if she's got a boyfriend or not. If you know her name, ask around and you may get an answer.

If it's 2 or 3 (and for some reason I think it's 2 more than anything), have NOTHING else to do with her.

[Wayne]

You're her ego boost. Whenever she's down or feels the sadistic need to twist around someone's libido she calls on you. Every man is the same when we get turned on and nothing happens and she knows this. Your sexual frustration is anticipated and brightens her day just a little bit more. Do yourself a favor and tell her to get bent.