What do you make of this girl????

[DAVIDTUA]

Several Months ago I met this SMOKING HOT girl. She actually approached me at this place called Yardhouse. For those of you who do not know Yardhouse is an upscale brewery, with good food and supposedly the most choices of beers in the world. She walked up to me and just was completely forward in her interests in me. (Yeah i know, never happens, wish it happen to more to us fellas huh?) I played it off cool kept my poker face on the whole time even tho deep down inside I was like WOW this girl is smokin HOT! Anyway shes been emailing/texting/calling ever since. but whenver we plan to hook up she like goes MIA? So i literally go thru stages where I get really confused/pissed and say F her for playing all these games. But next thing you know I get a new text/email out of the blue from her saying oh we should hook up blah blah?

WTF?

Basically in short if she was not so smoking HOT I would normally logically say F this broad she aint worth it, but a part of me is like dude do whatever it takes to close this?

but i guess my question is.... WHY does she so interest and then right before we are suppose to go out on a date she goes MIA? and then keeps poppin back into the picture? I am completely stunned?

my female friends say:
1)she got scared and pussied out at the last second cause shes intimidated by me?
2)she has a boyfriend and only textes/emails/calls me when things dont work out or on the decline?
3) she has so many dudes on her she just cant seem to get away from them enough to hook up with me?

what do you guys think? i can not even put my finger on it(no pun intended LOL)

[donnydarkoIRL]

It is a possibilty she's got a boyfriend , If so back away. It's not right and you're putting yourself at risk.
I know if ever found out I was being two timed, I would quite literally lose the plot. You don't need a beating over some girl.

On the other hand the girl could have confidence issues and needs to be nurtured more., patience mifght be th4e best solution...How long have you been texting/emailing?

[BIG H]

She's mugging you off mate. If she is playing games already, you are going to be in for a sh1t time. Bin it off

[DAVIDTUA]

thanks for the response buddy. REP PTS coming your way!


ummm well she first came up to me at the yardhouse like SEVERAL months back and it like turned into an email/texting thing more than anything. its been so long that i forget about her even existing then she like textes me a pic of her like in a tube top or bikini(and she had gigantic hooters by the way LOL) and im all like DAMN now why you gotta go and do that love huh? and it gets me all excited and wanting her all over again.

i dont understand how she has confidence issues when shes the one who came up to me and basically asked me out? LOL. does her confidence go from sky high to so low that she just goes MIA for like 2-3months in between

i dont know buddy i think i could just say F it and not even bother, but those text pictures ARE KILLING ME! ARRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGH!

[DAVIDTUA]

hitmandonny 4pts for the wise words buddy thanks!

[donnydarkoIRL]

Hey man don't be surprised...
Sometimes people who appear confident are actually the least.
She might be able to show herself off from a distance, but maybe she can't present herself in front of you after first contact.

On the other hand she may just be flirtatious and using you for a bit of fun. If you're getting photos and a bit of fun out of it, you're not harming anyone, enjoy it I say. Some might view you as a lucky fella!

If you still want to meet up, maybe feign disinterest and if she craves your attention, say "hey what are you doing such and such a time."
If she's not available, then she's just playing, otherwise the lack of attention will make her want to meet you.

[BIG H]

Mate, I can relate and if I was in your position it would be really hard to walk away, but from experience a head fukk is a heads fukk and if she is doing this now imagine what it would be like if you got into a relationship and you never knew where you stand etc - would be a nightmare. If it was me I would probably do everything in my power to bang her and see if she's worth the hassle - problem there is she may be fukk of the century and then you're even more screwed

Walk away mate

[DAVIDTUA]

Mate, I can relate and if I was in your position it would be really hard to walk away, but from experience a head fukk is a heads fukk and if she is doing this now imagine what it would be like if you got into a relationship and you never knew where you stand etc - would be a nightmare. If it was me I would probably do everything in my power to bang her and see if she's worth the hassle - problem there is she may be fukk of the century and then you're even more screwed

Walk away mate

buddy i wish i could give you 40pts for your what you just replied to me with, but sorry i can only give you 4 pts for now k?

can you elaborate on how you can relate to me? did u have a similiar situation and please tell me u handled it wisely and have a much better ending than the one i feel im going to end up with!

YES buddy, with her body, those hips, those lips, those legs, those thighs, those huge hooters, that bodacious booty, GOD DAMN im so fucked. i really cant not even see how this could be anything short from the lay of the millenium!

[donnydarkoIRL]

hold on I remeber this story!!!!

There was this guy in my college and he was really into this girl. She was even more into him.
Everyone was speculating when they'd get together, cos they were obviously boiling for each other.

There was a group project and they were put together and I think that inflamed the situation....


Oh wait....I better not finish the story

[DAVIDTUA]

please do LOL

[DAVIDTUA]

i mean please finish the story lol

[donnydarkoIRL]

It's really not a nice story...well it is I guess.
But It's probably not applicable to your scenario....I really don't wanna freak you out.

[DAVIDTUA]

buddy im so fucked, well atleast mindfucked right now that anything even a story that doesnt relate would prolly even make me feel better.

just spit it out lets get it over with lol

[donnydarkoIRL]

I highly doubt it will make you feel better

But, when they were forced to do the group project, like I said they got close.
Same interests, very compatible.
Now I wasn't in their group, I was in a completely different one so I'm not sure how it happened, but the guy just went for it;
"I'm attracted to you, I'd love to really get to know you, I think I'm falling for you" all meant sincerely.
I think they got to kissing, she felt the same, but when things started to get a little more heated she was crying.
The dude said she was willing, she wanted him and kept going, but after a couple of minutes he just stopped and asks whats wrong?
"Herpes"


Now, I mean....uh....obviously thats not your scenario....But you know...
Uh....I'm....
Shouldn't have told that story should I?

[DAVIDTUA]

OHHHHHHHHHHHHH SHIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIT!!! LOL

that did cheer me up lol