You are making a lot of mistaken inferences from my post.

"My point stands. Don't make the racial statements period. Don' look for excuses for it. Don't justify it by quantity or frequency in surroundings, and just don't, first and for most....start it. Then all of us won't be talking or arguing about it.." I never suggested otherwise and if anything your response suggested an indifference to certain slurs.

""OMG white people get racist stuff too!!" Isn't much of an argument which I tried to illustrate" I didn't say that and wasn't making any argument at all. Again I was pointing out the double standard found on this board, nothing less nothing more.
Okay, my bad, I am a bit emotional with lack of sleep and thought it was a personal. I do think this place needs to start moderating it more. I know it doesn't want to lose members, but I remember a time when I joined here it didn't get too far and people were sent for the door when it began. Or maybe given a cooling off period to think about it.

We need to get back there.