I kinda need advice. Bad times.

[Kev]

Fortunately Bilbo, you're not the kind of guy to actually pay attention to such a request, as he will have your advice if he likes it or not!

Personally it's a problem I'd love to have.

He just gone made it worse for himself with that request.

But you are completely right. Imagine the alternative scenario. You're a young guy working a school run, packed full of schoolgirls and none of them find you attractive. That would fucking suck, like every day going to work and being reminded how totally unnappealing you are to hot girls.

He's totally looking at this the wrong way.

[Andre]

It would be killin me , good luck, you know you have to abort this mission.

[CFH]

The only way that there is an unimagined problem is if you feel that you wouldn't be able to control yourself if she did make a move. Unless that is the case, and I seriously doubt it is, the only problems are in your head.

I agree with Bilbo, enjoy it if you can and if not just try to ignore it. The only way something bad happens is if you allow it and as long as you control yourself you will be fine. Throughout your life there will be women you are seriously attracted to, being married doesn't change that, as long as you play the tape through by doing what Saddo suggests and realize that your family is worth so much more than a fling, you'll be just fine.

I've been with the same girl for almost a goddamn decade. I have been tempted more times that I could count, but I've never acted on it because the negatives far outweigh the positives. I can't imagine ever cheating on the wife, but it doesn't mean I can control who I'm attracted to.