I just cannot buy into concepts that seem so alien to me. I have done alright for myself in life and it hasn't come from projecting positive energy. It is because I am skilled at what I do and I can provide an effective service. I don't do it all doom and gloom and regard my work very much as performance, but it's called doing a job. You take the mask off and have a good moan later. In fact the moaning is probably a better medicine than false positivity which is just misleading. Wear your masks and let off steam when you want.

There are no rights and wrongs in life and if people think this works, well bigger hippy them. I am much more comfortable with a good old moan and to then get on with life. The Secret just seems so incredibly American and it just isn't how British people are.

We like a good old moan and to then move on to the next thing. American's are so into their smiling and harnessing the positive energy, but it's plastic, artificial and for me at least would mean selling out.