Snakey, listen to Saddo, Adam, and Kel. I don't want to be mean or anything, but you obviously do not have a lot of experience with girls or relationships. This girl does not want to be with you, that is why she broke up with you. She did it over the phone after a year long relationship, what does this tell you about the level of respect she has for you? And don't give me any bullshit about her being really sensitive etc., if she was that sensitive she would have considered your feelings and broke up with you face to face instead of being a coward and doing it over the phone, thus being considerate only of herself. Like Kel said, she's probably fucking someone else, it might have even be the reason she broke it off; regardless, she does not want you and probably never will again, you need to understand that - it will make what you are going through much easier. Why would you waste your time chasing after someone who does not want to be with you? It makes no sense. The best thing you can do is to go out and have a good time and try to get laid. Like Saddo said, chicks only want what seems unattainable, and most chicks like guys who are assholes, not some love-sick teenager who chases after them, regardless of what Hollywood or your mother tells you. Also, in my experience, they will not hesitate to take advantage of said love-sick teenager. Sorry to sound harsh man, but this is the truth and you need to stop obsessing about some broad who doesn't want to be with you.