What do you make of this girl????

[DAVIDTUA]

duuuuuuuuude this girls so smokin that, AIDS would prolly be the only thing from stopping me LOL

[BIG H]

Mate, I can relate and if I was in your position it would be really hard to walk away, but from experience a head fukk is a heads fukk and if she is doing this now imagine what it would be like if you got into a relationship and you never knew where you stand etc - would be a nightmare. If it was me I would probably do everything in my power to bang her and see if she's worth the hassle - problem there is she may be fukk of the century and then you're even more screwed

Walk away mate

can you elaborate on how you can relate to me? did u have a similiar situation and please tell me u handled it wisely and have a much better ending than the one i feel im going to end up with!

I've had quite a few situations where woman have come on really strong and then gone all aloof and then as soon as I have back off and not shown much interested, the texts, phonecalls, pictures etc all start again. So I have got all emotionally involved again and sure enough she backs away again, starts waiting a whole day to reply to texts etc. It is just a viscious circle. If she wants to be with you she would not be playin any games, she would just go for it, it's a control thing, if you show no interest she will probably be all over you. I just think it's gonna end in hurt (yours) coz the mind games have started already and you aint even in a relationship yet.

[donnydarkoIRL]

OHHHHHHHHHHHHH SHIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIT!!! LOL

that did cheer me up lol

Ha hA Glad I could help somehow!

In actuality, they're a couple now.
He cared bout her more than his own health.
I admire that.

H has a point though, personality is actually more important than looks in relationship terms.
Do you go to that brewery regularly?
It could be a neutral meeting place.

I remeber when I used to go out after fights or whatever, I'd just send a text to all applicable peole in my phonebook "I'll be going out to the red square at such and such a time, if you guys are around meet me!"
So send that to all friends including her. It's wher you met, so she sgot no trouble going there so why shouldn't she?
Also it will let her se, you're not waiting at home by the phone for her

[Kev]

Ok some hobbit wisdom.

Fisrt off let's get a clear picture of what is going on here Tua. Have you EVER spent any time with this girl apart from meeting her this one time?

I mean it sounds like you met her once for a few minutes, swopped emails and have been emailing and texting ever since but have never seen each other again?

That's a new one to me I have to admit. I mean if you've only met once I'm at a loss to explain why she'd still be messaging you now and hasn't lost interest, whilst at the same time hasn't wanted to see you

Maybe she just feels you get on well as online buddies/pen pals and doesn't really want to change that? How often do you talk to each other? What kind of things do you talk about?


Another possible scenario is this. She likes talking online to you. She likes flirting via text with you, and when caught up in the moment she wants to see you.

However when she's not in that emotional state, i.e when you call or somthing she doesn't want to see you. It could be that your messages are really hot and steamy and that when she's not actually in a flirty mood they make her feel slutty?


I know from my own experience that I'm quite likely to text girls late at night, especially when I'm drunk and horny. Lot's of men do this, they have a 2 am club, you know a list of girls they have had sex with in the past who they call only when drunk and wanting to have sex. The next day you just arn't interested at all because you're no longer in that state.

Girls do it too, although less often as they have a built in anti slut mechanism that makes them feel guilty about this kind of stuff.

It's possible she enjoys flirting with you when she's in the mood but never wants to meet you because you havn't built any comfort with her. Most girls don't ever like to feel like a slut and if the two of you merely exchange dirty messages and emails, whilst she enjoys it, she probably feels guilty and a little dirty maybe when she's not in that emotional state.

But you'll need to explain the siuation more for me to better be able to elaborate.

[Julius Rain]

Tua that girl prolly just like attentions, her sending you photos of her is a clear sign she loves guy drowling over her. Shes playing you bro, if a girl really wanted you she would of blown you already. Theres just girls like that, they love guys attention but would only flirt with them a while. Make them think they are special but to her shes just another guy. Don't get attach bro, some girls are evil like this. Just enjoy her sending you photos and take advantage of it. Look here bro, tell her from her last photo she looks like shes gaining weight. She freak out and will try to impress you. Take control of the game my friend, don't let her play games with you. YOU PLAY GAMES WITH HER. Im sure you want to pound her so try not to be just another guy she is playing games with. Let her know you ain't a sucker like the others. Next time she tries that lets hang out shyt, tell her maybe next week cause your busy with your homegirl this week. Yes, use the word homegirl not friend, homeboy,or family. The word homegirl is crucial, it would send thoughts into her like crazy. She'll think theres a girl out there you rather hang with and you are totally not even considering that girl as your girlfriend but just as a homegirl.For starters this chick whos playing game just wants to be your cute sexy homegirl and is just play flirting the thoughts in your head of ever pounding her or having her as your girlfriend. What ever you do, do not make her feel special. Forget the compliments, yes shes hott but step up bro take control of the situation. Your more likely to benefit from this then being another sucker whos drowling to bang her and shes loving every second of how shes so wanted. Let her know shes the one whos just another chick you can flirt with and see in bikinis.

Now go my friend, Julius Rain never fails. A few weeks later she will be the one being suckered into your games.

[Douglas]

Several Months ago I met this SMOKING HOT girl. She actually approached me at this place called Yardhouse. For those of you who do not know Yardhouse is an upscale brewery, with good food and supposedly the most choices of beers in the world. She walked up to me and just was completely forward in her interests in me. (Yeah i know, never happens, wish it happen to more to us fellas huh?) I played it off cool kept my poker face on the whole time even tho deep down inside I was like WOW this girl is smokin HOT! Anyway shes been emailing/texting/calling ever since. but whenver we plan to hook up she like goes MIA? So i literally go thru stages where I get really confused/pissed and say F her for playing all these games. But next thing you know I get a new text/email out of the blue from her saying oh we should hook up blah blah?

WTF?



Basically in short if she was not so smoking HOT I would normally logically say F this broad she aint worth it, but a part of me is like dude do whatever it takes to close this?

but i guess my question is.... WHY does she so interest and then right before we are suppose to go out on a date she goes MIA? and then keeps poppin back into the picture? I am completely stunned?

my female friends say:
1)she got scared and pussied out at the last second cause shes intimidated by me?
2)she has a boyfriend and only textes/emails/calls me when things dont work out or on the decline?
3) she has so many dudes on her she just cant seem to get away from them enough to hook up with me?

what do you guys think? i can not even put my finger on it(no pun intended LOL)

You really need to find out if she's got a boyfriend or not. If you know her name, ask around and you may get an answer.

If it's 2 or 3 (and for some reason I think it's 2 more than anything), have NOTHING else to do with her.

[RP33]

thanks for the response buddy. REP PTS coming your way!


ummm well she first came up to me at the yardhouse like SEVERAL months back and it like turned into an email/texting thing more than anything. its been so long that i forget about her even existing then she like textes me a pic of her like in a tube top or bikini(and she had gigantic hooters by the way LOL) and im all like DAMN now why you gotta go and do that love huh? and it gets me all excited and wanting her all over again.

i dont understand how she has confidence issues when shes the one who came up to me and basically asked me out? LOL. does her confidence go from sky high to so low that she just goes MIA for like 2-3months in between

i dont know buddy i think i could just say F it and not even bother, but those text pictures ARE KILLING ME! ARRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGH!

this situation is pretty simple.. first off how old are you? cause that plays a major role.. i'd say if the girl is over 21 then she's prob just juggling guys.. if a girl is attractive and isn't the type to be in a relationship and get attached then this is how they act.. If they see a guy who they think is attractive, then they approach them, and add them to the list.. whether it be something that makes her feel more self-esteem because guys are talking to her or what, it doesn't matter..

point is, you said it in your first post.. SHE approached YOU, which isn't something that happens normally in general.. so imagine how many guys she's approached in the past.. that's the key.. chances are she does this all the time..

throw her the bone and then forget about her.. who doesn't wanna sleep with a hot chick?

anyway.. you should post those tube top pictures, i think that would help us all decide what you should do

[Wayne]

You're her ego boost. Whenever she's down or feels the sadistic need to twist around someone's libido she calls on you. Every man is the same when we get turned on and nothing happens and she knows this. Your sexual frustration is anticipated and brightens her day just a little bit more. Do yourself a favor and tell her to get bent.

[Kev]

Tua that girl prolly just like attentions, her sending you photos of her is a clear sign she loves guy drowling over her. Shes playing you bro, if a girl really wanted you she would of blown you already. Theres just girls like that, they love guys attention but would only flirt with them a while. Make them think they are special but to her shes just another guy. Don't get attach bro, some girls are evil like this. Just enjoy her sending you photos and take advantage of it. Look here bro, tell her from her last photo she looks like shes gaining weight. She freak out and will try to impress you. Take control of the game my friend, don't let her play games with you. YOU PLAY GAMES WITH HER. Im sure you want to pound her so try not to be just another guy she is playing games with. Let her know you ain't a sucker like the others. Next time she tries that lets hang out shyt, tell her maybe next week cause your busy with your homegirl this week. Yes, use the word homegirl not friend, homeboy,or family. The word homegirl is crucial, it would send thoughts into her like crazy. She'll think theres a girl out there you rather hang with and you are totally not even considering that girl as your girlfriend but just as a homegirl.For starters this chick whos playing game just wants to be your cute sexy homegirl and is just play flirting the thoughts in your head of ever pounding her or having her as your girlfriend. What ever you do, do not make her feel special. Forget the compliments, yes shes hott but step up bro take control of the situation. Your more likely to benefit from this then being another sucker whos drowling to bang her and shes loving every second of how shes so wanted. Let her know shes the one whos just another chick you can flirt with and see in bikinis.

Now go my friend, Julius Rain never fails. A few weeks later she will be the one being suckered into your games.

Good posting Rains, you know how the ladies mind works. You should join with me and Dizaster and become a PUA

[Gandalf]

I think the girl is a complete waste of time. No point even getting involved with someone like that. There are actually a few good women out there. A minority much like the men...but they are there.

[Julius Rain]

Tua that girl prolly just like attentions, her sending you photos of her is a clear sign she loves guy drowling over her. Shes playing you bro, if a girl really wanted you she would of blown you already. Theres just girls like that, they love guys attention but would only flirt with them a while. Make them think they are special but to her shes just another guy. Don't get attach bro, some girls are evil like this. Just enjoy her sending you photos and take advantage of it. Look here bro, tell her from her last photo she looks like shes gaining weight. She freak out and will try to impress you. Take control of the game my friend, don't let her play games with you. YOU PLAY GAMES WITH HER. Im sure you want to pound her so try not to be just another guy she is playing games with. Let her know you ain't a sucker like the others. Next time she tries that lets hang out shyt, tell her maybe next week cause your busy with your homegirl this week. Yes, use the word homegirl not friend, homeboy,or family. The word homegirl is crucial, it would send thoughts into her like crazy. She'll think theres a girl out there you rather hang with and you are totally not even considering that girl as your girlfriend but just as a homegirl.For starters this chick whos playing game just wants to be your cute sexy homegirl and is just play flirting the thoughts in your head of ever pounding her or having her as your girlfriend. What ever you do, do not make her feel special. Forget the compliments, yes shes hott but step up bro take control of the situation. Your more likely to benefit from this then being another sucker whos drowling to bang her and shes loving every second of how shes so wanted. Let her know shes the one whos just another chick you can flirt with and see in bikinis.

Now go my friend, Julius Rain never fails. A few weeks later she will be the one being suckered into your games.

Good posting Rains, you know how the ladies mind works. You should join with me and Dizaster and become a PUA

Im already a member, have you forgotten? I have a v.i.p. life membership

[X]

She was probably with some friends, partaking of the liquid refreshment, and one of them made a bet that she wouldn't chat up the ugliest bloke in the bar.

[BIG H]

She was probably with some friends, partaking of the liquid refreshment, and one of them made a bet that she wouldn't chat up the ugliest bloke in the bar.

Cunt

[DAVIDTUA]

She was probably with some friends, partaking of the liquid refreshment, and one of them made a bet that she wouldn't chat up the ugliest bloke in the bar.

hahaha LOL

that would suck asss if that were true! lol

but the story is a bit more complex then what i stated so far, because long story short i met one of her mutual friends first this other hottie and she kinda was bragging hey guess who i met to this same friend. so that might of been part of the reasoning why she did approach me??

[X]

Sorry Davidtua .... I just couldn't resist !!

Forgive me?