I think Salty is on the right track here. I'd just add that in Australia guys perve way to obviously especially after a few drinks.

You basically want the woman you're approaching to feel like your making your own opinion of her in a non dickheadish but non male slut way and taking just as long to do that as she is taking to form her opinion of you.

Yes women do believe in male sluts unlike men who think guys who screw a lot are just studs - we are not turned on by the option of catching a myriad of STDs!

Clubber you're just shy - practice casually talking and having normal conversations with all women whether you think they're hot or not and you'll end up with a girlfriend!