Don't worry Julius I still like ya mate

It's easy to criticise someone without being in their situation.

You're only 21 mate, your wife is 27 I believe.

You arn't the first person to marry young and then feel like you're trapped in a relationship that you no longer want to be part of.

Some of the moralising on this thread has gone totally over the top imo, like everybody else leads perfect lives

It's easy to pontificate about doing the right thing when your not the one living in that situation.

I've been in relationships where I no longer wanted to be with my girl, or we had problems and it's fucking horrible, you feel completely alone and trapped.

I hope you work things out mate.