Give me some training for my mission..

[Chris Nagel]

You get into a talkative state by what else-- talking. Don't think too much about the first approach, be loose and just have fun with it. After that it should just come natural.

If there's any public gatherings, say a wedding, party, whatever, go for it. I've found it so much easier because everyone's talkative, and in a good mood. You can small talk your way at first and then just have a conversation.

Good luck.

[Salty]

You get into a talkative state by what else-- talking. Don't think too much about the first approach, be loose and just have fun with it. After that it should just come natural.

If there's any public gatherings, say a wedding, party, whatever, go for it. I've found it so much easier because everyone's talkative, and in a good mood. You can small talk your way at first and then just have a conversation.

Good luck.

I don't think there is better advice than this my friend, talk to everyone. The point where you start discriminating who you talk to is the day you place a higher value on the chick you are talking to. You would know this just puts you in her frame, which is not attractive. Catch the bus, talk to the old man/lady in the priority seat, talk to schitzo at the train station, just let your mouth run and your brain will eventually learn it's place.

Good luck, maybe listen to the blueprint again, check out this guy's blog it reminds me where my head should be sometimes. Real Social Dynamics - Alex Attitude Blog Archive Back to Basics: Hook Questions, the New Stuff.

Most of all mate, enjoy yourself, it's the start of a new life for yourself

[Dizaster]

Thanks all.. I'm taking everyone's advice... Healthy body, healthy mind - So i'm going to do a bit of exercise and try to eat better over the next few weeks. There has been times in the past where I have been regularly exercising and i've felt great all round.
I'm also going to listen to RSD blueprint again. I just started listening to it today, and remembered my blog I wrote a few months back about not being phased by a girls reality or looks etc. So I went back and read that and that gave me a bit of a boost. Because I have a really bad tendency to put girls on pedestals when most probably havn't earned half the credit and adoration I give them.
I've also decided to really take small steps. I've got all the pickup theory and structure in my head, but I think i'm just going to try to forget about all that. At least at the start and the first few days. My first day will just be about walking up to girls and opening my mouth. I'm not going to worry about trying to impress them or keep them in a conversation or anything. Just getting a girls attention a few times during that day will be a big step forward.
Once I get past a day, and have found that I can get a girls attention on me without her running off in terror, then i'll look at ways of keeping her interest for 10 more seconds etc...

I'm starting to get a little excited about it now.... There is this super super super hot red head girl at my work that I see every day, and she is extremely inspiring to me wanting to get out and have a chance at meeting girls like this..



reps all round after I have dinner..

[Shamrock]

Mate I know where you are coming from. I was sooooo bad at talking to girls when I was at school. Just made a total mess of it. Two things helped - I started boxing and that built up my self confidence and then when I started work at 17 I was put into an office with about 75 women... it was sink or swim and luckily I swam Just be relaxed and go for it - it's like everything else the more you do it the easier it gets.

Good Luck fella

[JT Rock]

Read the Book.. I Hope They Serve Beer In Hell By Tucker Max

TuckerMax.com The guy and his exploits will really help you navigate thru talking to woman and how to get what you want out of them..

They are a collection of stories that will make you laugh and vever look at woman the same

[Sharla]

I have to admit the whole concept of your mission doesn't complete gel with me but since it's not like you're hiding anything from your girlfriend and she obviously approves since she's driving you to it I have no reason to really be against it -

Ok I have a feeling I will get replies detailing some in depth how to pick up girls guide saying you already know what your strategy is but just in case you haven't thought about it:

Have an excuse - like needing directions, where to buy something, asking the time etc etc since we're all pretty much told not to trust unknown guys who approach us and without some 'safe' alterior reason for making an initial approach you'll put girls on guard immediately.

I'm not really sure how big you are in person but if you look physically capable of over-powering people or have tatoos or anything which signals not being incapable of handling yourself in a rumble this is especially true. Sure it can be a selling point but if you don't make it non- threatening to start with it'll work against you.

[Andre]

Mate, just make sure you have already had a root before you leave each day and your relaxed and set up for a great day whatever happens. Should I pm you my number in case you need bail?