How do you deal with constant nagging?

[generalbulldog]

How do I deal with a constant nagging cunt? I'd just say "bitch, gimme a beer... just clean, cook, and STFU!"

Like that? I always thought you and brucelee were cool

I have been married now for just over five years and one thing that has really started to bug me is the incessant nagging. Since coming back from my holiday, the nagging is something that has really begun to stand out. It's all the time now. Honestly, anything I say right now gets turned into a verbal sparring match. I will say something, anything, and it will get turned into WW3. The same thing happened today. I simply said that I didn't want to do an early morning company class (starting 8am) and would much rather just work my regular teaching hours (between 10 and 6) and immediately she was on me calling me lazy, saying that I am useless, and telling me that she will never find me extra work again. Blah, blah, blah. A lot of histrionics over nothing. This time I put my foot down and simply told her to stop talking because I was just not in the mood for another row. Thereafter I simply ignored her and she stormed off to her room and here I am looking at a nice quiet night in the living room. I'm not complaining.

Ever since coming back from holiday she has been like this. The holiday was quite nice actually, but faltered a little towards the end which I had put down to PMS, but it's been getting progressively worse ever since. If I complain that it's too hot, I am always complaining. If I have a drink, I get called a drinking machine. If I wear a nice shirt and accidentally spill some dinner on it, I am in the doghouse. Today I went to work and my umbrella got stolen. I had to come home in the rain and my shirt was creased and drenched. It had been freshly ironed so I hurriedly put it in the bottom of the washing machine in fear of being accused of abusing my newly ironed clothes. That's just sad really.

One thing that annoyed my wife is that her company offered her a six month position in the UK and she asked me to drop all my contracts and just fly over there with her and do that. But I put my foot down and said no. I mean, no way will I just jump and leave like that. Korea is no heaven, but I have my responsibilities and ties here and to be honest I am more than settled. Maybe this is her sweet revenge, but if so it is extremely childish and tbh, I am getting towards the end of my tether with the whole shenanigans. It's not the easiest of things living overseas and if your supposed partner is then also trying to make everything you do so difficult then it leads to a lot of misery. I guess I'm just not very happy right now which is a shame because I really enjoyed my holiday and have come back quite refreshed. I haven't mentioned politics once since coming back!

So a thread about being nagged at and being in the doghouse. What are your experiences and how did you deal with it?

Got some bad news for you. The reason you getting so much negativity is cuz somebody has too. You become the scapegoat for everything that's currently going wrong. Your the one to blame. Why is that? Why you? Cuz your not priority at the moment. Chances are (I'm putting this at 75% I'm right) she's screwing someone else. And that somebody is getting all the positive your not getting while at the same time filling her head with things. He's dropping little hints and little comments that are convincing her that everything that's going wrong is cuz of you. And that's pissing her the fuck off. Why the fuck should she bother getting along with you when she's blaming you for everything? Think about it

Sancho has struck again!

[KKisser]

what did you ever see in her in the first place miles?









well, if only we could all go back to the time we fell in love with the other person.

[Gandalf]

LOL at VD.

That's the one thing she is definitely not doing. We spend fair too much time around one another to be doing that. There are no evenings apart or little trips out. Everything is pretty much done together, tbh probably the reason why we have been getting on each others nerves.

Like I say, we've got it all into the open and for the time being things have been alright. Though she did go to sleep at 11am and woke up at 3pm and then proceeded to blame me for not waking her up. She could have set her alarm or told me to wake her up, but no, it has to be my fault. Women are a strange breed!

[Howlin Mad Missy]

LOL at VD.

That's the one thing she is definitely not doing. We spend fair too much time around one another to be doing that. There are no evenings apart or little trips out. Everything is pretty much done together, tbh probably the reason why we have been getting on each others nerves.

Like I say, we've got it all into the open and for the time being things have been alright. Though she did go to sleep at 11am and woke up at 3pm and then proceeded to blame me for not waking her up. She could have set her alarm or told me to wake her up, but no, it has to be my fault. Women are a strange breed!

With all his excellent advice on women I'm thinking VD is about 15 and his sexual experience is based on razzle and his right hand.

[Violent Demise]

LOL at VD.

That's the one thing she is definitely not doing. We spend fair too much time around one another to be doing that. There are no evenings apart or little trips out. Everything is pretty much done together, tbh probably the reason why we have been getting on each others nerves.

Like I say, we've got it all into the open and for the time being things have been alright. Though she did go to sleep at 11am and woke up at 3pm and then proceeded to blame me for not waking her up. She could have set her alarm or told me to wake her up, but no, it has to be my fault. Women are a strange breed!

With all his excellent advice on women I'm thinking VD is about 15 and his sexual experience is based on razzle and his right hand.

You know I almost wish that were the case after dealing with some of the most poisonous females to ever walk this earth. Something tells me you just might fall in that category.

[Gandalf]

A short update: I'm telling you women are a strange, strange, strange bunch. For over a week I was being given grief for almost everything I did. Every gesture, movement and sound was the work of the most evil man in the history of the world. Now not a bad word exchanged in days. It's almost like that week never happened and it was all in my head. It was weird, because though I can be a bit obtuse and am not always the most helpful around the house, my wife has never been the constantly nagging type. Sure, I will get moaned at for forgetting to cover the area around the grill properly or forget to add that fragrant liquid stuff to the washing machine before the cycle finishes, but she has never been the constantly lecturing, mean and snarky type. It's good that things are more peaceful and that we aren't at war everyday. She did some shopping and even bought me a 4 pack of beer today so all in all things are looking up!

[0james0]

In the similar threads bit at the bottom of the page, it brang up this:

http://www.saddoboxing.com/boxingfor...ging-wife.html

Thought of you!

[Howlin Mad Missy]

LOL at VD.

That's the one thing she is definitely not doing. We spend fair too much time around one another to be doing that. There are no evenings apart or little trips out. Everything is pretty much done together, tbh probably the reason why we have been getting on each others nerves.

Like I say, we've got it all into the open and for the time being things have been alright. Though she did go to sleep at 11am and woke up at 3pm and then proceeded to blame me for not waking her up. She could have set her alarm or told me to wake her up, but no, it has to be my fault. Women are a strange breed!

With all his excellent advice on women I'm thinking VD is about 15 and his sexual experience is based on razzle and his right hand.

You know I almost wish that were the case after dealing with some of the most poisonous females to ever walk this earth. Something tells me you just might fall in that category.

Reap what you sow.

[Andre]

LOL at VD.

That's the one thing she is definitely not doing. We spend fair too much time around one another to be doing that. There are no evenings apart or little trips out. Everything is pretty much done together, tbh probably the reason why we have been getting on each others nerves. She wants a threesome.



You and Vd , tag team.

Rough then caring you know Good cop bad cop.

Actually I couldnt think of anything worse Than a 3some, shoot yourself instead

Like I say, we've got it all into the open and for the time being things have been alright. Though she did go to sleep at 11am and woke up at 3pm and then proceeded to blame me for not waking her up. She could have set her alarm or told me to wake her up, but no, it has to be my fault. Women are a strange breed!

* Tell her: The up hill thing to do in life is to look for the good in someone you reach higher ground ; its too easy looking for the bad all the time because thats just a downhill slide for both.