Dames are crazy....

[El Kabong]

booze & kabong if you don't want any emotional attachment from a woman just pick up drunken slappers who you'll never see again....if by God you would want a woman to actually LIKE you before having sex with you or oh no! talk to her, don't come complaining because she see it as more than a ONS.

Doufases...doufusi.

you like her then you like her but stop wasting her time.

Hey if she stops acting like a flake I'm willing to stay with her and be 100% faithful. But all these headaches and depression, and what not are very trying Missy, and not just for her.

I don't want some hussy...(well at least not in general) but the deal is this in regards to my current relationship with this girl is one of "de facto monogamy" we haven't had the "What are we talk" and we're not engaged so its not like you can really consider it full scale cheating especially when all I've done is inquire about the availability of another woman. Contact hasn't even been made with the other girl Missy.

Missy, why are you so ill at me? I'm a good guy, should I put my whole heart in this relationship just in time for her to bail out and crush me for no good reason? I've played the fool before, I don't care for it. I like this girl but she's going to have to get over her past in order to have a future with me.

I'm not being down on you squire.

All of the ills of the world could be put to rest if people drop the bs.

you like her right? and would consider her for more than just sex judging from what you've written here BUT are unwilling to talk to her about whatever is bugging her.

And they say women are hard to understand.

She closes off to me Missy...I don't want to bust out the lamp and interrogate her. If she trusts me, which I've given her no reason not to (to this point) she'll tell me what her problems are without me having to pin her down and answer my questions. There's "mysterious" and there's "irksome" and she's really pushing on irksome with her behavior lately. I'll get to the bottom of things soon enough. To tell you the truth Missy, I never have enjoyed breaking up with anyone or stringing anyone along, the reason I'm taking my time here is because there could be a future in this for me, but we'll see when we finally get to the "substance" of the relationship we'll see.

I will tell you this, never have I ever been out with a girl that didn't talk about her ex...its ridiculous "My ex used to ________" I mean what are you girls thinking? You tell us that why? I can go for YEARS without spilling specifics of past relationships, why do girls surrender that unsolicited information Guys, have you had similar issues? I don't respond to any mention of exes because of course as a man "Whatever you say, can and will be used against you in the court of Crazy also known as the female mind" and also I don't respond in the hopes that it ends the discussion of that specific topic...alas it never fails to be brought up.