How to pick up women at pubs?

[El Kabong]

Bowfinger

Terry Stricter, MindHead Honcho: Happy premise #1.
Kit: Happy premise #1: There are no aliens.
Terry Stricter, MindHead Honcho: Happy premise #2.
Kit: Happy premise #2: There is no giant foot trying to squash me.
Terry Stricter, MindHead Honcho: Happy premise #3.
Kit: Happy premise #3: Even though I feel like I might ignite, I probably won't.



That ought to work, along with "I must not whip it out for the Laker girls"

[Unknowndonor]

Be confident not cocky.
Be witty not obnoxious.
Look into her eyes not her tits.
Have goals and appear on the move, not just an average joe.
Don't be overly nice, but don't be rude.

If you have a problem closing, look for the above average girl with the hot friend (that every other guy is tring to pick up) and swoop in(on the above average girl). At least that will get you back in the game, without lowering your standards to the large buck-toothed girl by herself.

Suddenly I feel like Dr. Phil.

[CFH]

Be confident not cocky.
Be witty not obnoxious.
Look into her eyes not her tits.
Have goals and appear on the move, not just an average joe.
Don't be overly nice, but don't be rude.

If you have a problem closing, look for the above average girl with the hot friend (that every other guy is tring to pick up) and swoop in. At least that will get you back in the game, without lowering your standards to the large buck-toothed girl by herself.

Suddenly I feel like Dr. Phil.

That is solid advice.

[Dizaster]

Be confident not cocky.
Be witty not obnoxious.
Look into her eyes not her tits.
Have goals and appear on the move, not just an average joe.
Don't be overly nice, but don't be rude.

If you have a problem closing, look for the above average girl with the hot friend (that every other guy is tring to pick up) and swoop in(on the above average girl). At least that will get you back in the game, without lowering your standards to the large buck-toothed girl by herself.

Suddenly I feel like Dr. Phil.

If you can be Cocky as well as funny, that's a good combo.... If your just cocky, you will come across as an arrogant prick.. if you are just funny, you'll come across as an entertainer.. You might make girls laugh, but they won't bang you... Cocky funny pushes their buttons..
Tease girls without mercy.. If you are confident about it and don't "appologize" if she gets offended, then it's on! If she gets all twisted up and has a stick to far up her ass to take a joke, just tell her you thought she seemed like fun and adventurous so you thought you could tease her,,,, then just give her a hug or something..

Their is a thing called Kino escalation too which helps.. Kino is short for Kinethetic which means touch in some technical way..

Their is accident Kino, which is like brushing your leg against her's while sitting. Leaning against her to talk over loud music.. Shaking her hand upon introduction. Then their is overt Kino, which is holding or playing with her hand, touching her back to bring her closer to you. Playing with or pulling her hair a little bit..
If you can escalate touching her by just being close to her with your legs touching etc, then if she's got a ring on or something, take her hand to look at it, say she's got something on her face and then touch to get it of etc etc...Give her hugs when you tease her or she makes a funny joke, (make sure you push her off once you've hugged her.. be the first to back away.. Keep her guessing).. Tell her she gets 2 more free hugs and then you're going to start charging her.. If you can really smoothly escalate touching her, you can get all the way up to kissing and more heavy stuff without barely having to talk... Just pay attention to her body language and make sure your not pushing anything to much..

Lean back when talking to the girls, don't be leaning in... Don't ask her really dumb questions like "where are you from, what do you do etc" It's fishing for commonalities and it's what all guys do.. Say something like, you were talking to a friend today and he asked you where you would most like to visit in the world,,,, and you said blah blah blah because... Then ask her...
Try not to compliment her on her looks.. They get it all the time and it doesn't help her get attracted to you. Especially at the start..
When you do get talking with a girl and she has some interest in you, take her around the pub and talk to your friends who are scattered around... Don't just introduce her like she is a new puppy you've just bought, or a new prize you just won.. Just have fun with your friends... Show her that you are a friendly normal guy..

Darn, okay I wasn't gonna post a huge post here but once I get started... Okay, her is the perfect structure for meeting a girl... None of this is a hard fast rule, it's just a general generalization that works most of the time.. every rule can be broken though.

1. Open - This means going up and talking to a girl (stranger). Right here, you don't want to show to much interest in her.. You are just the slightly drunk, friendly guy in the bar that is talking to everyone... If she has friends their, which she probably WILL, don't just go up and talk directly to her and ignore her friends.. You are better off talking to the whole group and partly ignoring her at the start... Win her group over, and they will let you take her.. Ignore them, and they will probably cockblock you big time down the stretch..
2. Be interesting - Tell her about some fight you just saw outside between 2 girls, or whatever... who knows.. Just be a fun guy.. whenever you get a chance, just tease the girl that you are interested in.. Just something light hearted.. If you tease her a bit, she should start to like, flick her hair, or touch your arm etc to try to win your attention/affection back.. If she asks your name, it's showing she's interested in you.
3. Show some sort of interest in her - Once you see that she may be slightly interested in you, then you can start showing a bit more interest in her. Directly a little bit more attention away from her group and more towards her.. Ask her a mundane question or 2 like, What is your favourite band... Tease one of her answers like "omg, I can't beleive you like them.. they are terrible"... This shows you aren't one of those guys that are going to suck up her ass and fall all over everything she says... But for one of her answers be like "wow,that is actually really cool"... This will give her a good feeling like you approve of her in some way...
4. Take her somewhere else in the bar/club - Say, lets go make fun of people, or lets go make some friends, or lets go, you can buy me a drink etc etc.. Don't say "hey, do you want to come with me", just say lets go.. Then lead her around.. Take her hand and if she holds on, she's yours my man!! Be the leader,,, it's a very attractive thing to women if you lead them.. Make excuses touch her all this time.. If some guy is walking backwards into her sort of, put your arm around her side and pull her out the way etc etc..
The main reason why guys get rejected when they go to kiss a girl that they are getting along with is that it suddenly comes out of nowhere when they have just been sitting next to them.. If you have a lot of physical contact, the kiss just comes naturally..

Anyway, that will do for now.. if you can get to that stage, i'm sure you'll be able to handle the rest...

[Sharla]

I think Salty is on the right track here. I'd just add that in Australia guys perve way to obviously especially after a few drinks.

You basically want the woman you're approaching to feel like your making your own opinion of her in a non dickheadish but non male slut way and taking just as long to do that as she is taking to form her opinion of you.

Yes women do believe in male sluts unlike men who think guys who screw a lot are just studs - we are not turned on by the option of catching a myriad of STDs!

Clubber you're just shy - practice casually talking and having normal conversations with all women whether you think they're hot or not and you'll end up with a girlfriend!

[Snakey]

Be confident not cocky.
Be witty not obnoxious.
Look into her eyes not her tits.
Have goals and appear on the move, not just an average joe.
Don't be overly nice, but don't be rude.

If you have a problem closing, look for the above average girl with the hot friend (that every other guy is tring to pick up) and swoop in(on the above average girl). At least that will get you back in the game, without lowering your standards to the large buck-toothed girl by herself.

Suddenly I feel like Dr. Phil.

If you can be Cocky as well as funny, that's a good combo.... If your just cocky, you will come across as an arrogant prick.. if you are just funny, you'll come across as an entertainer.. You might make girls laugh, but they won't bang you... Cocky funny pushes their buttons..
Tease girls without mercy.. If you are confident about it and don't "appologize" if she gets offended, then it's on! If she gets all twisted up and has a stick to far up her ass to take a joke, just tell her you thought she seemed like fun and adventurous so you thought you could tease her,,,, then just give her a hug or something..

Their is a thing called Kino escalation too which helps.. Kino is short for Kinethetic which means touch in some technical way..

Their is accident Kino, which is like brushing your leg against her's while sitting. Leaning against her to talk over loud music.. Shaking her hand upon introduction. Then their is overt Kino, which is holding or playing with her hand, touching her back to bring her closer to you. Playing with or pulling her hair a little bit..
If you can escalate touching her by just being close to her with your legs touching etc, then if she's got a ring on or something, take her hand to look at it, say she's got something on her face and then touch to get it of etc etc...Give her hugs when you tease her or she makes a funny joke, (make sure you push her off once you've hugged her.. be the first to back away.. Keep her guessing).. Tell her she gets 2 more free hugs and then you're going to start charging her.. If you can really smoothly escalate touching her, you can get all the way up to kissing and more heavy stuff without barely having to talk... Just pay attention to her body language and make sure your not pushing anything to much..

Lean back when talking to the girls, don't be leaning in... Don't ask her really dumb questions like "where are you from, what do you do etc" It's fishing for commonalities and it's what all guys do.. Say something like, you were talking to a friend today and he asked you where you would most like to visit in the world,,,, and you said blah blah blah because... Then ask her...
Try not to compliment her on her looks.. They get it all the time and it doesn't help her get attracted to you. Especially at the start..
When you do get talking with a girl and she has some interest in you, take her around the pub and talk to your friends who are scattered around... Don't just introduce her like she is a new puppy you've just bought, or a new prize you just won.. Just have fun with your friends... Show her that you are a friendly normal guy..

Darn, okay I wasn't gonna post a huge post here but once I get started... Okay, her is the perfect structure for meeting a girl... None of this is a hard fast rule, it's just a general generalization that works most of the time.. every rule can be broken though.

1. Open - This means going up and talking to a girl (stranger). Right here, you don't want to show to much interest in her.. You are just the slightly drunk, friendly guy in the bar that is talking to everyone... If she has friends their, which she probably WILL, don't just go up and talk directly to her and ignore her friends.. You are better off talking to the whole group and partly ignoring her at the start... Win her group over, and they will let you take her.. Ignore them, and they will probably cockblock you big time down the stretch..
2. Be interesting - Tell her about some fight you just saw outside between 2 girls, or whatever... who knows.. Just be a fun guy.. whenever you get a chance, just tease the girl that you are interested in.. Just something light hearted.. If you tease her a bit, she should start to like, flick her hair, or touch your arm etc to try to win your attention/affection back.. If she asks your name, it's showing she's interested in you.
3. Show some sort of interest in her - Once you see that she may be slightly interested in you, then you can start showing a bit more interest in her. Directly a little bit more attention away from her group and more towards her.. Ask her a mundane question or 2 like, What is your favourite band... Tease one of her answers like "omg, I can't beleive you like them.. they are terrible"... This shows you aren't one of those guys that are going to suck up her ass and fall all over everything she says... But for one of her answers be like "wow,that is actually really cool"... This will give her a good feeling like you approve of her in some way...
4. Take her somewhere else in the bar/club - Say, lets go make fun of people, or lets go make some friends, or lets go, you can buy me a drink etc etc.. Don't say "hey, do you want to come with me", just say lets go.. Then lead her around.. Take her hand and if she holds on, she's yours my man!! Be the leader,,, it's a very attractive thing to women if you lead them.. Make excuses touch her all this time.. If some guy is walking backwards into her sort of, put your arm around her side and pull her out the way etc etc..
The main reason why guys get rejected when they go to kiss a girl that they are getting along with is that it suddenly comes out of nowhere when they have just been sitting next to them.. If you have a lot of physical contact, the kiss just comes naturally..

Anyway, that will do for now.. if you can get to that stage, i'm sure you'll be able to handle the rest...

AH FUCK IT! The other night i was playing poker with a really hot chick and i wasnt even trying to chat her up or anything, just being me. God damn it...i never told her my name and after a while she asked for it and then she would occasionally touch my hand and make eye contact...but i thought nothing of it! I was just so tired that i couldnt care less about picking up, i was just listening to her talk and making fun of some of the stuff she does. Now i look back, i had a massive chance with her....if only id been more awake haha

[Youngblood]

good luck dude!

I started out the school year with lotsa girls flirting and calling me and it felt purdy good. But I am so into boxing that is all I basically talk about, and I soon found out I lost my mojo! Calls and the flirts dried right up.

I was telling a friend this not long ago, ya know...bout losing my mojo...and he said to 'just shut up about the boxing. most girls don't want to hear that.' He said tell em their hair smells nice and shit like that.

Been doing it 2 weeks now and the phone is ringing again!

[Salty]

I think Salty is on the right track here. I'd just add that in Australia guys perve way to obviously especially after a few drinks.

haha that's true, whenever you are designated driver you see this immediately. Guy's walking round with pints in his hand, see's a massive rack, walks into person in front who's stopped. Dizasters technique is pretty much what you should follow, but one important point is to say at the start that you can't stay for long, ie a time constraint, this stops the women into thinking that your this lonely bloke with no friends and again makes you less threatening as you wont be around for long so you aren't hitting on her. But in actual fact you have all intention of staying there, plus if you don't like the girl your talking to you've got an excuse to leave.

[Snakey]

good luck dude!

I started out the school year with lotsa girls flirting and calling me and it felt purdy good. But I am so into boxing that is all I basically talk about, and I soon found out I lost my mojo! Calls and the flirts dried right up.

I was telling a friend this not long ago, ya know...bout losing my mojo...and he said to 'just shut up about the boxing. most girls don't want to hear that.' He said tell em their hair smells nice and shit like that.

Been doing it 2 weeks now and the phone is ringing again!

Know what ya mean dude, i was chattin this chick up when i was out of town the other week and she goes "what you into" and i said boxing and it lead to me talking about danny green and anthony mundine (i figured shed know them coz theyre pretty famous in aus)...she said "who are they?" and i just went fuck there goes my chances haha

[Dizaster]

good luck dude!

I started out the school year with lotsa girls flirting and calling me and it felt purdy good. But I am so into boxing that is all I basically talk about, and I soon found out I lost my mojo! Calls and the flirts dried right up.

I was telling a friend this not long ago, ya know...bout losing my mojo...and he said to 'just shut up about the boxing. most girls don't want to hear that.' He said tell em their hair smells nice and shit like that.

Been doing it 2 weeks now and the phone is ringing again!

Know what ya mean dude, i was chattin this chick up when i was out of town the other week and she goes "what you into" and i said boxing and it lead to me talking about danny green and anthony mundine (i figured shed know them coz theyre pretty famous in aus)...she said "who are they?" and i just went fuck there goes my chances haha

You could have made her feel like she was a total social retard for not knowing that... "what are you paris hilton?" "Is shoes and eyeshadow all you girls care about?",, then she'd be defending herself and you could be like, heyyyy "omg, I was just kidding.... your really defensive.." it's cool, I didn't think you would know about boxing... If you knew who they were, I would think you might be a boy under there..... pause.... "your not a boy are you? ? ? Coz your nose kind of looks like... pause" uhhh don't worry.. It's actually a really cute nose, i'm just teasing...

If you want to look at it simply,,, it's just keeping the upper hand.. controlling the frame of the conversation.. If you can just keep that 1 step ahead, she's yours... You felt that one slip away, but you can turn anything into a positive.. Good luck dude!! We wanna hear about any success's in the near future

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[Douglas]

Be confident not cocky.
Be witty not obnoxious.
Look into her eyes not her tits.
Have goals and appear on the move, not just an average joe.
Don't be overly nice, but don't be rude.

If you have a problem closing, look for the above average girl with the hot friend (that every other guy is tring to pick up) and swoop in(on the above average girl). At least that will get you back in the game, without lowering your standards to the large buck-toothed girl by herself.

Suddenly I feel like Dr. Phil.

If you can be Cocky as well as funny, that's a good combo.... If your just cocky, you will come across as an arrogant prick.. if you are just funny, you'll come across as an entertainer.. You might make girls laugh, but they won't bang you... Cocky funny pushes their buttons..
Tease girls without mercy.. If you are confident about it and don't "appologize" if she gets offended, then it's on! If she gets all twisted up and has a stick to far up her ass to take a joke, just tell her you thought she seemed like fun and adventurous so you thought you could tease her,,,, then just give her a hug or something..

Their is a thing called Kino escalation too which helps.. Kino is short for Kinethetic which means touch in some technical way..

Their is accident Kino, which is like brushing your leg against her's while sitting. Leaning against her to talk over loud music.. Shaking her hand upon introduction. Then their is overt Kino, which is holding or playing with her hand, touching her back to bring her closer to you. Playing with or pulling her hair a little bit..
If you can escalate touching her by just being close to her with your legs touching etc, then if she's got a ring on or something, take her hand to look at it, say she's got something on her face and then touch to get it of etc etc...Give her hugs when you tease her or she makes a funny joke, (make sure you push her off once you've hugged her.. be the first to back away.. Keep her guessing).. Tell her she gets 2 more free hugs and then you're going to start charging her.. If you can really smoothly escalate touching her, you can get all the way up to kissing and more heavy stuff without barely having to talk... Just pay attention to her body language and make sure your not pushing anything to much..

Lean back when talking to the girls, don't be leaning in... Don't ask her really dumb questions like "where are you from, what do you do etc" It's fishing for commonalities and it's what all guys do.. Say something like, you were talking to a friend today and he asked you where you would most like to visit in the world,,,, and you said blah blah blah because... Then ask her...
Try not to compliment her on her looks.. They get it all the time and it doesn't help her get attracted to you. Especially at the start..
When you do get talking with a girl and she has some interest in you, take her around the pub and talk to your friends who are scattered around... Don't just introduce her like she is a new puppy you've just bought, or a new prize you just won.. Just have fun with your friends... Show her that you are a friendly normal guy..

Darn, okay I wasn't gonna post a huge post here but once I get started... Okay, her is the perfect structure for meeting a girl... None of this is a hard fast rule, it's just a general generalization that works most of the time.. every rule can be broken though.

1. Open - This means going up and talking to a girl (stranger). Right here, you don't want to show to much interest in her.. You are just the slightly drunk, friendly guy in the bar that is talking to everyone... If she has friends their, which she probably WILL, don't just go up and talk directly to her and ignore her friends.. You are better off talking to the whole group and partly ignoring her at the start... Win her group over, and they will let you take her.. Ignore them, and they will probably cockblock you big time down the stretch..
2. Be interesting - Tell her about some fight you just saw outside between 2 girls, or whatever... who knows.. Just be a fun guy.. whenever you get a chance, just tease the girl that you are interested in.. Just something light hearted.. If you tease her a bit, she should start to like, flick her hair, or touch your arm etc to try to win your attention/affection back.. If she asks your name, it's showing she's interested in you.
3. Show some sort of interest in her - Once you see that she may be slightly interested in you, then you can start showing a bit more interest in her. Directly a little bit more attention away from her group and more towards her.. Ask her a mundane question or 2 like, What is your favourite band... Tease one of her answers like "omg, I can't beleive you like them.. they are terrible"... This shows you aren't one of those guys that are going to suck up her ass and fall all over everything she says... But for one of her answers be like "wow,that is actually really cool"... This will give her a good feeling like you approve of her in some way...
4. Take her somewhere else in the bar/club - Say, lets go make fun of people, or lets go make some friends, or lets go, you can buy me a drink etc etc.. Don't say "hey, do you want to come with me", just say lets go.. Then lead her around.. Take her hand and if she holds on, she's yours my man!! Be the leader,,, it's a very attractive thing to women if you lead them.. Make excuses touch her all this time.. If some guy is walking backwards into her sort of, put your arm around her side and pull her out the way etc etc..
The main reason why guys get rejected when they go to kiss a girl that they are getting along with is that it suddenly comes out of nowhere when they have just been sitting next to them.. If you have a lot of physical contact, the kiss just comes naturally..

Anyway, that will do for now.. if you can get to that stage, i'm sure you'll be able to handle the rest...

AH FUCK IT! The other night i was playing poker with a really hot chick and i wasnt even trying to chat her up or anything, just being me. God damn it...i never told her my name and after a while she asked for it and then she would occasionally touch my hand and make eye contact...but i thought nothing of it! I was just so tired that i couldnt care less about picking up, i was just listening to her talk and making fun of some of the stuff she does. Now i look back, i had a massive chance with her....if only id been more awake haha

I'll bet the next time you saw her she wanted nothing to do with you. Same shit has happened to me.

[Snakey]

If you can be Cocky as well as funny, that's a good combo.... If your just cocky, you will come across as an arrogant prick.. if you are just funny, you'll come across as an entertainer.. You might make girls laugh, but they won't bang you... Cocky funny pushes their buttons..
Tease girls without mercy.. If you are confident about it and don't "appologize" if she gets offended, then it's on! If she gets all twisted up and has a stick to far up her ass to take a joke, just tell her you thought she seemed like fun and adventurous so you thought you could tease her,,,, then just give her a hug or something..

Their is a thing called Kino escalation too which helps.. Kino is short for Kinethetic which means touch in some technical way..

Their is accident Kino, which is like brushing your leg against her's while sitting. Leaning against her to talk over loud music.. Shaking her hand upon introduction. Then their is overt Kino, which is holding or playing with her hand, touching her back to bring her closer to you. Playing with or pulling her hair a little bit..
If you can escalate touching her by just being close to her with your legs touching etc, then if she's got a ring on or something, take her hand to look at it, say she's got something on her face and then touch to get it of etc etc...Give her hugs when you tease her or she makes a funny joke, (make sure you push her off once you've hugged her.. be the first to back away.. Keep her guessing).. Tell her she gets 2 more free hugs and then you're going to start charging her.. If you can really smoothly escalate touching her, you can get all the way up to kissing and more heavy stuff without barely having to talk... Just pay attention to her body language and make sure your not pushing anything to much..

Lean back when talking to the girls, don't be leaning in... Don't ask her really dumb questions like "where are you from, what do you do etc" It's fishing for commonalities and it's what all guys do.. Say something like, you were talking to a friend today and he asked you where you would most like to visit in the world,,,, and you said blah blah blah because... Then ask her...
Try not to compliment her on her looks.. They get it all the time and it doesn't help her get attracted to you. Especially at the start..
When you do get talking with a girl and she has some interest in you, take her around the pub and talk to your friends who are scattered around... Don't just introduce her like she is a new puppy you've just bought, or a new prize you just won.. Just have fun with your friends... Show her that you are a friendly normal guy..

Darn, okay I wasn't gonna post a huge post here but once I get started... Okay, her is the perfect structure for meeting a girl... None of this is a hard fast rule, it's just a general generalization that works most of the time.. every rule can be broken though.

1. Open - This means going up and talking to a girl (stranger). Right here, you don't want to show to much interest in her.. You are just the slightly drunk, friendly guy in the bar that is talking to everyone... If she has friends their, which she probably WILL, don't just go up and talk directly to her and ignore her friends.. You are better off talking to the whole group and partly ignoring her at the start... Win her group over, and they will let you take her.. Ignore them, and they will probably cockblock you big time down the stretch..
2. Be interesting - Tell her about some fight you just saw outside between 2 girls, or whatever... who knows.. Just be a fun guy.. whenever you get a chance, just tease the girl that you are interested in.. Just something light hearted.. If you tease her a bit, she should start to like, flick her hair, or touch your arm etc to try to win your attention/affection back.. If she asks your name, it's showing she's interested in you.
3. Show some sort of interest in her - Once you see that she may be slightly interested in you, then you can start showing a bit more interest in her. Directly a little bit more attention away from her group and more towards her.. Ask her a mundane question or 2 like, What is your favourite band... Tease one of her answers like "omg, I can't beleive you like them.. they are terrible"... This shows you aren't one of those guys that are going to suck up her ass and fall all over everything she says... But for one of her answers be like "wow,that is actually really cool"... This will give her a good feeling like you approve of her in some way...
4. Take her somewhere else in the bar/club - Say, lets go make fun of people, or lets go make some friends, or lets go, you can buy me a drink etc etc.. Don't say "hey, do you want to come with me", just say lets go.. Then lead her around.. Take her hand and if she holds on, she's yours my man!! Be the leader,,, it's a very attractive thing to women if you lead them.. Make excuses touch her all this time.. If some guy is walking backwards into her sort of, put your arm around her side and pull her out the way etc etc..
The main reason why guys get rejected when they go to kiss a girl that they are getting along with is that it suddenly comes out of nowhere when they have just been sitting next to them.. If you have a lot of physical contact, the kiss just comes naturally..

Anyway, that will do for now.. if you can get to that stage, i'm sure you'll be able to handle the rest...

AH FUCK IT! The other night i was playing poker with a really hot chick and i wasnt even trying to chat her up or anything, just being me. God damn it...i never told her my name and after a while she asked for it and then she would occasionally touch my hand and make eye contact...but i thought nothing of it! I was just so tired that i couldnt care less about picking up, i was just listening to her talk and making fun of some of the stuff she does. Now i look back, i had a massive chance with her....if only id been more awake haha

I'll bet the next time you saw her she wanted nothing to do with you. Same shit has happened to me.

Meh couldnt care less, i aint after a relationship...i just wanna root

[RozzySean]

There is some good advice on this thread so far. You could certainly go the VD route - that's the most guaranteed way to instant success. Yeah, you need to be confident or at least act that way. That's a must, but it's not always easy to achieve, so I'll give a tip about staying relaxed and staying confident.

Rule 1: Know your game an know your target. If you are really good looking, very posh, and carry a stash of coke or e, you can probably get laid anytime a a club. If you don't fit his description, stick with bars and pubs that draw women. Karaoeke nights are good, as long and you don't sing. It's just that they draw out women.

Rule 2: Don't go out with the express intention of hooking up for meeting anybody. Go out with your friend with the understanding that you will have fun and the night will be a success if you just get a buzz and have laughs with your buddies. It takes all the pressure off and lets you just be yourself. This is really key. Have a good wingman or wingmen.

Rule 3: Don't worry about closing the deal that night. This is not to say that you won't close the deal, but if you thinking about trying to make it happen that night, it probably won't, unless you go the VD route. Women can smell desperation and an agenda. The only way you will hook up that night if you are scheming for it to happen that night is if she is just as desperate as you. It happens, but it's unlikely.

Rule 4: Don't talk like a big shot. Be quietly confident - ask more questions and listen more than you talk. Don't brag. I've seen guys who were totally in fuck up by talking to much and trying to impress too much. Let the pussy come to you. If you don't get laid that night, you might get a date and get a blowjob next weekend.

Rule 5: If you are set on just getting laid, target the second or third best looking girl in the group. The hottest ones get hit on all the time and they are immune to anybody that doesn't have an A game. I'm not saying go ugly (you can do that if you want), but the girl who is a 7 but has friends who are 9's is used to watching the hotter friends get the guys. Target the still attract, second tier friend and ignore the super hottie. This makes them feel special, and they are more likely to desperate to fuck you that night.

Those are my rules. They worked for me. They got me laid in bars when I was single, and I met my current wifey this way - when I was just getting back into the game after a divorce. Following rule three has the best change of eventually getting you another girlfriend. Rule 5 will get you laid and you're more likely to beer goggle.

A few more important tips - talk to women, they will not come to you normally. Don't wait until 15 minutes before last call. If you do that, you seem really pathetic. Start your work earlier, give yourself some time. Lastly, practice. Who gives a shit if you get shot down? Like anything else, you'll only get better if you learn from your mistakes and keep trying.

Hope that helps.