I kinda need advice. Bad times.

[Kev]

JimBo you've got 3 choices: 1. Fuck her (now or later) but fuck her and receive your punishment (your family leaving you or massive amounts of guilt until they find out or a lengthy prison stay) 2. Address the situation like an adult and be completely clear with her (in which case if you're wrong you look like a total tool and a freaky quasi-child molester) 3. Do nothing, maybe use her as fuel on some nights where its hard starting the fire (wink wink say no more) or just ignore her.

Be a grown man and make a grown man choice.

And if you say that's bad advice I'm hopping on a plane to England to whip your limey ass!

From what I've got so far from this thread I really don't think option 1 is an option at all. It basically sounds like a schoolgirl smiles and looks at him sometimes and he's gone into meltdown.

The best advice is the advice me and Josh have been giving him all along. Do nothing. Nothing at all is going to happen. It's just a case of a friendly girl smiling at him, and he feels bad because he has a crush on her. What he seems to not be getting is that every red blooded guy would likewise be attracted to her if she is indeed hot, but that in itself is no big deal. There are millions of hot young girls in the world. Some may even smile at you. But that doesn't make them available to you. This whole problem is a scenario in his head.

I'm also not sure who he is angry with aside from Missy, as everyone has given him good advice and only Missy has had a go at him. And in Missy's case, she is responding to him the exact same way she would respond to any other male poster who posted this up.

JB seems a bit of a stress head to me. Just chill man


I'm just baffled as to what his problem is exactly. He seems to believe this girl is about to throw herself at him in front of everyone without him instigating anything, like in a porno movie. If only life was that great...