Society

[TitoFan]

My issue is with equality of opportunity which on the whole I don't think that exists to a sufficient degree. If you are the average child of a rich person you have more opportunities than the average child of less well off parents. The statistics exist and show that children from less well off backgrounds tend to struggle in ways that wealthier offspring won't. Children of poor origins have a harder time making a fair go of things. These things are not absolute and exceptions will always exist, but the trends are there. If you are better off higher connections are more easily made and you get ahead plus a decent allowance from Daddy. If you don't have the smarts to use the system then you will most typically get a job that won't help you get ahead materially. And like Beanz says, there are valuable jobs where workers really are not valued enough. You will never see Paris Hilton washing old people and that is more significant than anything she has done in her life.

My concern is that the means of creating equality of opportunity is being dismantled and the idelogical belief in fighting for that is in some ways being decimated. Investment in public schools in the UK is lagging behind in real terms and thus if you are being privately educated and have a place in public school then you have it all in your court from day one. It is yours to screw up in that situation, whilst you are half screwed already in the former.

Miles, I think if you look at the short term you are probably right. Equally qualified children from wealthy parents and from less well off parents..... the wealthy ones get most of the breaks to start off. But look at it as a marathon. Eventually, the "wealthy children" advantage wears off and you're left to fend for yourself and on your own. Many times these kids are ill equipped to handle life's "curveballs", and sometimes fall flat on their faces. Children from struggling or less well off parents, on the other hand, learn how to adjust to life and overcome its hurdles. In the long run, they become better professionals, better people, better parents, etc.

I've seen this enough times to believe that it is more common than one might think.

[Gandalf]

To a degree social mobility can and does exist, but I would love to know how many Eton Schoolboys end up working in Tesco's. It is common sense to assume that people who have significant material support are more likely to find themselves access to more possibilities than those who do not. Inherited wealth and expensive education are significant factors. If you are raised in council housing, from a broken family, and have no money then you are far more likely to struggle in life. Of my schoolfriends who weren't well off pretty much all are doing menial jobs such as bar tending, bouncer work, retail and the like today. None of these people were ever able to get ahead and though you could argue that they just didn't make the right decisions, in many ways the paths were already set as that is the path most follow. You don't work in a supermarket after Eton and with parental connections.

And I see it is a declining state of affairs with everything being made harder for ordinary people. Public education is sliding, higher education will saddle you with lifelong debt, and jobs for young people simple are not there. There really is very little to aim for.

[VictorCharlie]

Obviously one's starting point in life is going to affect one's ending point. I don't know how or even if you should rectify this. Parents are going to attempt to give their children the best life they can. How do get the lower socio-economic parents to demand more of their children, push them, explain to them that they will have to worker harder and longer to have a better life? How do you get wealthy people to instill a greater sense of service, responsibility and work ethic?

[Gandalf]

Obviously one's starting point in life is going to affect one's ending point. I don't know how or even if you should rectify this. Parents are going to attempt to give their children the best life they can. How do get the lower socio-economic parents to demand more of their children, push them, explain to them that they will have to worker harder and longer to have a better life? How do you get wealthy people to instill a greater sense of service, responsibility and work ethic?

It is a very complex issue, but I think the worst place to start is to make higher education expensive or to reduce spending on education. I happen to think this modern age of both parents having to work automatically makes life harder for middle class people too. The parents are tired, the child doesn't really see the parents enough and has to fend for himself and thus you see another person being raised without the support they truly deserve. Elizabeth Warren showed the stats, both parents pretty much have to work in this day and age. We are in an age that only cares about economic growth and personal growth has to fall by the wayside as a consequence.

People always say to me here that I have a lot of opinions and that I don't do enough to back it up, but I think I make a very big statement in simply refusing to have children and therefore not contribute to any of this. I think the system is a sick one and it isn't fair to raise children in a lottery of the future. I am not a rich man and so won't get drawn into a silly game of governments simply wanting people being born for their own ends. They do not consider the life of the child and their emotional wellbeing.

[TitoFan]

Obviously one's starting point in life is going to affect one's ending point. I don't know how or even if you should rectify this. Parents are going to attempt to give their children the best life they can. How do get the lower socio-economic parents to demand more of their children, push them, explain to them that they will have to worker harder and longer to have a better life? How do you get wealthy people to instill a greater sense of service, responsibility and work ethic?

It is a very complex issue, but I think the worst place to start is to make higher education expensive or to reduce spending on education. I happen to think this modern age of both parents having to work automatically makes life harder for middle class people too. The parents are tired, the child doesn't really see the parents enough and has to fend for himself and thus you see another person being raised without the support they truly deserve. Elizabeth Warren showed the stats, both parents pretty much have to work in this day and age. We are in an age that only cares about economic growth and personal growth has to fall by the wayside as a consequence.

People always say to me here that I have a lot of opinions and that I don't do enough to back it up, but I think I make a very big statement in simply refusing to have children and therefore not contribute to any of this. I think the system is a sick one and it isn't fair to raise children in a lottery of the future. I am not a rich man and so won't get drawn into a silly game of governments simply wanting people being born for their own ends. They do not consider the life of the child and their emotional wellbeing.

It used to be that higher education was an automatic indicator of success. People with advanced college degrees were pretty much assured a smooth road in life. But there's been a gradual shift over the years. Technical institutes or trade schools have become an alternative to those who do not wish to, or have the means, to pursue a traditional college education. To that, add the ones with little advanced formal education who nevertheless have an innate mind for business, and you have yourself a group of people who weren't necessarily born with a silver spoon in their mouths, but become successful nonetheless. By the same token, you have those spoiled brats from wealthy families who study at renowned universities for all the wrong reasons, and end up being miserable, unfulfilled human beings.

That being said, it is obviously an advantage to be born into wealth. If you choose to do so, you can attend the school of your choosing and you have the connections to make life easier for you. The problem lies in that many of those wealthy parents aren't necessarily good parents, and thus neglect to give their spoon-fed kids what they need the most, a sense of self worth, human decency, and independence.

[Gandalf]

Obviously one's starting point in life is going to affect one's ending point. I don't know how or even if you should rectify this. Parents are going to attempt to give their children the best life they can. How do get the lower socio-economic parents to demand more of their children, push them, explain to them that they will have to worker harder and longer to have a better life? How do you get wealthy people to instill a greater sense of service, responsibility and work ethic?

It is a very complex issue, but I think the worst place to start is to make higher education expensive or to reduce spending on education. I happen to think this modern age of both parents having to work automatically makes life harder for middle class people too. The parents are tired, the child doesn't really see the parents enough and has to fend for himself and thus you see another person being raised without the support they truly deserve. Elizabeth Warren showed the stats, both parents pretty much have to work in this day and age. We are in an age that only cares about economic growth and personal growth has to fall by the wayside as a consequence.

People always say to me here that I have a lot of opinions and that I don't do enough to back it up, but I think I make a very big statement in simply refusing to have children and therefore not contribute to any of this. I think the system is a sick one and it isn't fair to raise children in a lottery of the future. I am not a rich man and so won't get drawn into a silly game of governments simply wanting people being born for their own ends. They do not consider the life of the child and their emotional wellbeing.

It used to be that higher education was an automatic indicator of success. People with advanced college degrees were pretty much assured a smooth road in life. But there's been a gradual shift over the years. Technical institutes or trade schools have become an alternative to those who do not wish to, or have the means, to pursue a traditional college education. To that, add the ones with little advanced formal education who nevertheless have an innate mind for business, and you have yourself a group of people who weren't necessarily born with a silver spoon in their mouths, but become successful nonetheless. By the same token, you have those spoiled brats from wealthy families who study at renowned universities for all the wrong reasons, and end up being miserable, unfulfilled human beings.

That being said, it is obviously an advantage to be born into wealth. If you choose to do so, you can attend the school of your choosing and you have the connections to make life easier for you. The problem lies in that many of those wealthy parents aren't necessarily good parents, and thus neglect to give their spoon-fed kids what they need the most, a sense of self worth, human decency, and independence.

You aren't even posting to give an honest viewpoint. Most children are born through accidents and therefore are born poor and with daft parents. At least the well off can alleviate the suffering to some degree with financial manipulation and that is what happens. Sure, the boy designed for the foreign office is a miserable git, but he gets a job in the foreign office. Little Tim at the comprehensive, no doubt he has a good future at the meat counter.

[TitoFan]

Obviously one's starting point in life is going to affect one's ending point. I don't know how or even if you should rectify this. Parents are going to attempt to give their children the best life they can. How do get the lower socio-economic parents to demand more of their children, push them, explain to them that they will have to worker harder and longer to have a better life? How do you get wealthy people to instill a greater sense of service, responsibility and work ethic?

It is a very complex issue, but I think the worst place to start is to make higher education expensive or to reduce spending on education. I happen to think this modern age of both parents having to work automatically makes life harder for middle class people too. The parents are tired, the child doesn't really see the parents enough and has to fend for himself and thus you see another person being raised without the support they truly deserve. Elizabeth Warren showed the stats, both parents pretty much have to work in this day and age. We are in an age that only cares about economic growth and personal growth has to fall by the wayside as a consequence.

People always say to me here that I have a lot of opinions and that I don't do enough to back it up, but I think I make a very big statement in simply refusing to have children and therefore not contribute to any of this. I think the system is a sick one and it isn't fair to raise children in a lottery of the future. I am not a rich man and so won't get drawn into a silly game of governments simply wanting people being born for their own ends. They do not consider the life of the child and their emotional wellbeing.

It used to be that higher education was an automatic indicator of success. People with advanced college degrees were pretty much assured a smooth road in life. But there's been a gradual shift over the years. Technical institutes or trade schools have become an alternative to those who do not wish to, or have the means, to pursue a traditional college education. To that, add the ones with little advanced formal education who nevertheless have an innate mind for business, and you have yourself a group of people who weren't necessarily born with a silver spoon in their mouths, but become successful nonetheless. By the same token, you have those spoiled brats from wealthy families who study at renowned universities for all the wrong reasons, and end up being miserable, unfulfilled human beings.

That being said, it is obviously an advantage to be born into wealth. If you choose to do so, you can attend the school of your choosing and you have the connections to make life easier for you. The problem lies in that many of those wealthy parents aren't necessarily good parents, and thus neglect to give their spoon-fed kids what they need the most, a sense of self worth, human decency, and independence.

You aren't even posting to give an honest viewpoint. Most children are born through accidents and therefore are born poor and with daft parents. At least the well off can alleviate the suffering to some degree with financial manipulation and that is what happens. Sure, the boy designed for the foreign office is a miserable git, but he gets a job in the foreign office. Little Tim at the comprehensive, no doubt he has a good future at the meat counter.

What's not honest about providing a complete picture, not just a slice of humanity? Most children are born through accidents? It's no wonder you want no children of your own. I guess if you're including in your statement the children born to indigenous tribes, and maybe the children born to underaged, ignorant 14-year old girls.... statistics may support your claim.

What's not honest is brushing off the sector, no matter how minor, of children that regardless of socioeconomic status, become productive, well-adjusted adults.