What do you make of this girl????

[DAVIDTUA]

buddy im so fucked, well atleast mindfucked right now that anything even a story that doesnt relate would prolly even make me feel better.

just spit it out lets get it over with lol

[donnydarkoIRL]

I highly doubt it will make you feel better

But, when they were forced to do the group project, like I said they got close.
Same interests, very compatible.
Now I wasn't in their group, I was in a completely different one so I'm not sure how it happened, but the guy just went for it;
"I'm attracted to you, I'd love to really get to know you, I think I'm falling for you" all meant sincerely.
I think they got to kissing, she felt the same, but when things started to get a little more heated she was crying.
The dude said she was willing, she wanted him and kept going, but after a couple of minutes he just stopped and asks whats wrong?
"Herpes"


Now, I mean....uh....obviously thats not your scenario....But you know...
Uh....I'm....
Shouldn't have told that story should I?

[DAVIDTUA]

OHHHHHHHHHHHHH SHIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIT!!! LOL

that did cheer me up lol

[DAVIDTUA]

duuuuuuuuude this girls so smokin that, AIDS would prolly be the only thing from stopping me LOL

[donnydarkoIRL]

OHHHHHHHHHHHHH SHIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIT!!! LOL

that did cheer me up lol

Ha hA Glad I could help somehow!

In actuality, they're a couple now.
He cared bout her more than his own health.
I admire that.

H has a point though, personality is actually more important than looks in relationship terms.
Do you go to that brewery regularly?
It could be a neutral meeting place.

I remeber when I used to go out after fights or whatever, I'd just send a text to all applicable peole in my phonebook "I'll be going out to the red square at such and such a time, if you guys are around meet me!"
So send that to all friends including her. It's wher you met, so she sgot no trouble going there so why shouldn't she?
Also it will let her se, you're not waiting at home by the phone for her

[Kev]

Ok some hobbit wisdom.

Fisrt off let's get a clear picture of what is going on here Tua. Have you EVER spent any time with this girl apart from meeting her this one time?

I mean it sounds like you met her once for a few minutes, swopped emails and have been emailing and texting ever since but have never seen each other again?

That's a new one to me I have to admit. I mean if you've only met once I'm at a loss to explain why she'd still be messaging you now and hasn't lost interest, whilst at the same time hasn't wanted to see you

Maybe she just feels you get on well as online buddies/pen pals and doesn't really want to change that? How often do you talk to each other? What kind of things do you talk about?


Another possible scenario is this. She likes talking online to you. She likes flirting via text with you, and when caught up in the moment she wants to see you.

However when she's not in that emotional state, i.e when you call or somthing she doesn't want to see you. It could be that your messages are really hot and steamy and that when she's not actually in a flirty mood they make her feel slutty?


I know from my own experience that I'm quite likely to text girls late at night, especially when I'm drunk and horny. Lot's of men do this, they have a 2 am club, you know a list of girls they have had sex with in the past who they call only when drunk and wanting to have sex. The next day you just arn't interested at all because you're no longer in that state.

Girls do it too, although less often as they have a built in anti slut mechanism that makes them feel guilty about this kind of stuff.

It's possible she enjoys flirting with you when she's in the mood but never wants to meet you because you havn't built any comfort with her. Most girls don't ever like to feel like a slut and if the two of you merely exchange dirty messages and emails, whilst she enjoys it, she probably feels guilty and a little dirty maybe when she's not in that emotional state.

But you'll need to explain the siuation more for me to better be able to elaborate.

[Julius Rain]

Tua that girl prolly just like attentions, her sending you photos of her is a clear sign she loves guy drowling over her. Shes playing you bro, if a girl really wanted you she would of blown you already. Theres just girls like that, they love guys attention but would only flirt with them a while. Make them think they are special but to her shes just another guy. Don't get attach bro, some girls are evil like this. Just enjoy her sending you photos and take advantage of it. Look here bro, tell her from her last photo she looks like shes gaining weight. She freak out and will try to impress you. Take control of the game my friend, don't let her play games with you. YOU PLAY GAMES WITH HER. Im sure you want to pound her so try not to be just another guy she is playing games with. Let her know you ain't a sucker like the others. Next time she tries that lets hang out shyt, tell her maybe next week cause your busy with your homegirl this week. Yes, use the word homegirl not friend, homeboy,or family. The word homegirl is crucial, it would send thoughts into her like crazy. She'll think theres a girl out there you rather hang with and you are totally not even considering that girl as your girlfriend but just as a homegirl.For starters this chick whos playing game just wants to be your cute sexy homegirl and is just play flirting the thoughts in your head of ever pounding her or having her as your girlfriend. What ever you do, do not make her feel special. Forget the compliments, yes shes hott but step up bro take control of the situation. Your more likely to benefit from this then being another sucker whos drowling to bang her and shes loving every second of how shes so wanted. Let her know shes the one whos just another chick you can flirt with and see in bikinis.

Now go my friend, Julius Rain never fails. A few weeks later she will be the one being suckered into your games.

[Dizaster]

Sounds like she could be intimidated,,, but every time you 2 have organised a date and she has not turned up, she's testing you and your probably failing... Sometimes they even do it subconsiously.. They want to meet you, but a small part of them comes up with some "reason" why they can't go. A part of it is to test how you'll react ie. will you get mad, sad, miss her, happy/carefree. She can test your interest in her in some warped way, and your manliness. What you'll stand for, and what you won't.

A couple of quick questions :
- What sort of dates are you making? Is it a big heavy 'dinner & movie' type deal, or something more relaxed..
- How have you reacted to her when speaking to her after she stood you up?
- How many times have you made dates with her and she's not turned up?

You've got to put the ball back in your court.. By this time she knows that she can get all the validation from you that she wants over the phone/e-mail etc, without really having to commit anything.. This is bad, as girls completely love validation and the less they have to do for it, the better. At the moment all she has to do is log onto her e-mail, and she gets all those great feelins of someone liking her, without having to commit to anything.
I'd also be willing to bet just about anything that she has 5 or 6 guys just like you that she's not giving much back to, and stringing along, but they are giving her a tonne of validation and making her feel great about herself.
Don't take it personally though, this is just what girls do. Especially hot girls.
The good thing is though, it wont take much for you to stand and out seperate you from the rest, and SHE'LL be wanting to chase you. Those other guys will become the distant chumps that she strings along, and you'll become the main man..

Give me a sec and i'll post back your plan to turn the relationship around.

[DAVIDTUA]

Sounds like she could be intimidated,,, but every time you 2 have organised a date and she has not turned up, she's testing you and your probably failing... Sometimes they even do it subconsiously.. They want to meet you, but a small part of them comes up with some "reason" why they can't go. A part of it is to test how you'll react ie. will you get mad, sad, miss her, happy/carefree. She can test your interest in her in some warped way, and your manliness. What you'll stand for, and what you won't.

A couple of quick questions :
- What sort of dates are you making? Is it a big heavy 'dinner & movie' type deal, or something more relaxed..
- How have you reacted to her when speaking to her after she stood you up?
- How many times have you made dates with her and she's not turned up?

You've got to put the ball back in your court.. By this time she knows that she can get all the validation from you that she wants over the phone/e-mail etc, without really having to commit anything.. This is bad, as girls completely love validation and the less they have to do for it, the better. At the moment all she has to do is log onto her e-mail, and she gets all those great feelins of someone liking her, without having to commit to anything.
I'd also be willing to bet just about anything that she has 5 or 6 guys just like you that she's not giving much back to, and stringing along, but they are giving her a tonne of validation and making her feel great about herself.
Don't take it personally though, this is just what girls do. Especially hot girls.
The good thing is though, it wont take much for you to stand and out seperate you from the rest, and SHE'LL be wanting to chase you. Those other guys will become the distant chumps that she strings along, and you'll become the main man..

Give me a sec and i'll post back your plan to turn the relationship around.

Dizaster! first off 5points from me to you bud! thanks for the wise words.

u know more and more i analyze it and i for some reason truly feel she really does chicken out? cuz why on earth would she still be talking to me, emailing me, texting me, etc etc if she didnt want me in some way?

DAMNIT women are IMPOSSIBLE to figure out LOL

to answer your questions:
A couple of quick questions :
- What sort of dates are you making? Is it a big heavy 'dinner & movie' type deal, or something more relaxed..

Answer: we pretty much both say we should hook up blah blah. it was anything from dinner, movies, the beach, san diego, vegas, baseball games, laker games. like for example just when she goes MIA, she'll text me a pic of her and her girlfriend from the laker game or angels game and saying u and i will be drinking beers right here for the next game sounds good to you babe?




- How have you reacted to her when speaking to her after she stood you up?

Well obviously i was pissed and let down cuz i wanna hook up with her in the worst way i mean shes SMOKIN lol i dont know how much more i can stress that LOL. i never really expressed it to her but like after the 2nd or 3rd time i kinda joked about it by saying: hey babe should I call up the channel 5 news to file a missing hot body report? haha. she then doesnt mention anything about MIA and acts like she didnt go MIA at all hahaha. i dont know many quite bizarre if u ask me? confusing as hell.

- How many times have you made dates with her and she's not turned up?
ummm well i do travel alot for work. i basically do sales and it entails me traveling alot for events/conferences etc. i tried to invite her on numerous accounts but she always says ill let u know bs. but actual hey im in town lets do this next weekend type of dates probably about 3 or 4 times at most like 5

AGAIN its weird cuz im not one of those dudes who like has no clue and like stalks chicks. i can def take a hint and shes never made it clear for me to back off or whatever and just when i think shes completely out she'll text me saying like hey babe we should do this or go here next time WTF LOL

[Spicoli]

Maybe your her "jumpoff" hook up.She has something working right now Buuuuut always good to have a back-up.....Not that your not All studly Tua but They have a way of walking us around by the crank at the first blush and we follow

[DAVIDTUA]

Maybe your her "jumpoff" hook up.She has something working right now Buuuuut always good to have a back-up.....Not that your not All studly Tua but They have a way of walking us around by the crank at the first blush and we follow

5 points buddy!

id love for her to be my jumpoff for LIFE LOL

[CutMeMick]

Tua,
My suggestion to you is FUCK her the second you get the chance then that way you won't give a shit about her the next day.

Problem solved.

[DAVIDTUA]

Tua,
My suggestion to you is FUCK her the second you get the chance then that way you won't give a shit about her the next day.

Problem solved.

LOL CUT!

if life were only that easy LOL

[Dizaster]

Hey dude, thanks for the reps!
Truely women are the greatest mystery on earth.. One thing i've found is that they don't even know what is going on with themselves, so we have absolutely NO chance..

I've got a really awesome E-book for you by a guy names Tynan... He lived in a house in Hollywood with a couple of the worlds greatest pickup artists for a year, and has a lot of great insights into how girls work and how to get the upper hand with them...
This particular e-book is more specifically dedicated to turning around relationships from you doing the work and chasing a girl, to her doing the work to chase you.
I think it's only about 20 or 30 pages long so you'll probably get it read in a night or two, and you'll be armed with lots of simple, subtle things that will make this girl feel more comfortable and attracted to you, and hopefully you two will hook up and " make a sexy time "..

Anyway, only want the best for ya man! Girls are tough tough tough, and we need all the advantages we can get when dealing with a hot woman..
It should only take a minute or 2 to download also, so give it a shot...

AND GOOD LUCK!!!

Tynan - AKA "Herbal" - Make Her Chase You (book)

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[Kev]

Hey dude, thanks for the reps!
Truely women are the greatest mystery on earth.. One thing i've found is that they don't even know what is going on with themselves, so we have absolutely NO chance..

I've got a really awesome E-book for you by a guy names Tynan... He lived in a house in Hollywood with a couple of the worlds greatest pickup artists for a year, and has a lot of great insights into how girls work and how to get the upper hand with them...
This particular e-book is more specifically dedicated to turning around relationships from you doing the work and chasing a girl, to her doing the work to chase you.
I think it's only about 20 or 30 pages long so you'll probably get it read in a night or two, and you'll be armed with lots of simple, subtle things that will make this girl feel more comfortable and attracted to you, and hopefully you two will hook up and " make a sexy time "..

Anyway, only want the best for ya man! Girls are tough tough tough, and we need all the advantages we can get when dealing with a hot woman..
It should only take a minute or 2 to download also, so give it a shot...

AND GOOD LUCK!!!

Tynan - AKA "Herbal" - Make Her Chase You (book)

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Another good find buddy. Herbal is the guy who took Katya away from Mystery isn't he so will be interesting to read his stuff.

Back to David Tua. I think to be honest mate I wouldn't be thinking about this girl at all anyway. I mean if you only met once I don't see why you'd get hung up over her at all whether she was smoking hot or not.

I think to be honest she has no interest in seeing you. She probably did like you in the club but now when you talk to her she's no longer in that same state so you have no interest to her.

I'm sure if another smoking hot girl came along now you'd forget about this other girl in an instant and that's probably what she's done to you. Don't sweat it though, it's really not a big deal.

If she does email or message you again I'd just act disinterested. I don't mean that as a way to try and attract her through reverse psychology though I mean literally just blow her off.

Why try and jump through hoops for a girl to make her attracted to you? You just lower your own value and self esteem. Adopt a more positive mindset, she messed you around and as a result she lost you. Put yourself in charge. Don't see yourself as someone who is chasing to try and get the girl.

Apart from her looks what has she done to earn your attraction anyway?

Start seeing yourself as the prize rather than the girl. Just give up on this one, honestly that will give you so much more power in the long run.